rebeccaisawesome Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 (edited) So I read this article on how a guy can get any girl he wants using these 9 "scientific" techniques. One was wearing red...? Isn't that what women are supposed to wear to be sexy? Lol and one was wear a plain white tshirt with a giant letter T on it? lmao wtf?? To be fair some of the other "techniques" weren't as silly. Check it out. 9 Scientific Tricks On How To Get Any Girl You Want. Share your thoughts or techniques. (Mostly so I can watch out for tricky men :| ) Edited May 12, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed URL Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Honey you stumbled across a PUA site. It's a bunch of hooey some guru spouts in an effort to get socially awkward desperate men to give money to the guru in exchange for advice. It's nonsense. There are time honored ways to meet new people. You will find in them in books & articles about networking but the boil down to * clean grooming * a genuine smile * self confidence / self awareness * the ability to listen It's not magic & it's certainly not about wearing a T shirt with a big T on it. However, learning to break the ice with a situational comment can help. I once introduced myself to a guy at a party in college by walking up to him & insulting the sports team emblazoned on the t-shirt he was wearing. I literally said the [team name] suck. I was in fact a fan of the rival team & we had a lively "debate" for the next few minutes & ended up going out for several months. [hey it was college; back then that counted as an LTR -- ] 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author rebeccaisawesome Posted May 12, 2016 Author Share Posted May 12, 2016 I will admit I still sometimes fall for cheesy lines and I'm a sucker for fake nice guys. I never seem to meet any actual nice guys. Just guys pretending to be nice so you do them. Then they're a-holes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 If you know that is a pattern in your life what are you doing to change the pattern? Can you change where you meet men? Can you change how soon you fall for them? It's much harder to sustain fake niceness over time. If they are only interested in scoring, they won't stick around if you lengthen the time before you sleep with them. You may also need to work on how you verbally vet them. Ask more Qs. Assess their character. Then make decisions about how much of your body or heart you will give them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 I will admit I still sometimes fall for cheesy lines and I'm a sucker for fake nice guys. I never seem to meet any actual nice guys. Just guys pretending to be nice so you do them. Then they're a-holes. I have a "thing" about "nice guys"... I will not go into it as it goes off topic and I get quite irate about it. However back on topic. There is no magic formula for attracting others to you. However what I can tell you is that a happy, straight forward, no messing kind of attitude, a face that is quick to smile and slow to frown, a tendency to stay away from gossiping and being nasty to others, honesty and being self aware and confident in who you are will do wonders. As for the fake nice guys... Best way to figure them out fast is to actually listen to what their friends and family say about them. Watch what they do not what they say they will do... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mike_89 Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Well I think a magical formula would be: look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney, be rich like Brad Pitt or George Clooney, be famous like Brad Pitt or George Clooney etc xD As for these techniques... One-liners etc. just don't work, on average. What does work in my experience is becoming more physically attractive (working out, better grooming, ...) and charismatic (knowing when to say what basically), I think it's the total image, the impression other people have of you, that matters. What I have noticed is that my success with girls has risen dramatically after I started working out heavily while not being afraid to show my endearing sides (like how protective I am of my sister and how much I love her). I often get referred to as a "gentle giant" or a "cute grizzly bear". I guess that image can work to attract (a specific kind of?) girls. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Is there really a scientific way to get any woman? No, science and romantic success usually don't go well together. Which is why scientists are usually in labs and not out sexing up the ladies/fellas. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 No (More words) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Tis Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 The scientific formula involves being Tony Stark. If you can be Tony Stark you can have any woman. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 So I read this article on how a guy can get any girl he wants using these 9 "scientific" techniques. One was wearing red...? Isn't that what women are supposed to wear to be sexy? Lol and one was wear a plain white tshirt with a giant letter T on it? lmao wtf?? To be fair some of the other "techniques" weren't as silly. Check it out. 9 Scientific Tricks On How To Get Any Girl You Want. Share your thoughts or techniques. (Mostly so I can watch out for tricky men :| ) No, those are scientific ways to take desperate people's money, by promising them "scientific techniques" to whatever problem they're desperate to fix or thing they're desperate to achieve. They do it with diets, dating, penis enlargement, all kinds of things, it's a scam. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 At the point we develop mind control, the concept of 'getting' anyone will become superfluous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Those sites are just preying on the weak. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hasaquestion Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 No, science and romantic success usually don't go well together. Which is why scientists are usually in labs and not out sexing up the ladies/fellas. What is the world, but an endless lab? OP, is there a "formula to get a girl"? Hell no. But I do think there is a "scientific" way to approach anything and everything in life. Observe, calibrate, observe, calibrate. Always question your assumptions. Stay process-oriented, not result-oriented. Never underestimate the all-pervading presence of randomness. Scientific investigation and most of life's pursuits are very similar. And networking skills, as Donnivan put it, are no different. The ability to work a room, clean-grooming, a genuine smile, self-confidence and self-awareness, listening well, empathy. The zealot will assume these are things they already are or aren't. The scientist will reduce to first principles, challenge assumptions, and hit the lab to have some fun. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Attraction is rooted in biology. So yes, there is a scientific way to get a lot (but probably not all) women. Above all: have a lot of money and/or resources (the biological basis of this is that if you have the things you need to survive, you're less likely to die. Avoiding death is life's most primal goal). Secondary: Appeal to her tastes on a personal and physical level. If you score high enough on each, that will make her attracted to you even if you aren't a billionaire yet, assuming you aren't a bum either. Looks definitely have a biological basis as well. Being compatible on a personal level is more or less a luxury. Not entirely necessary for attraction but certainly helpful. Link to post Share on other sites
hasaquestion Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 To expand on that, I think self-awareness in particular is a very fundamentally scientific quality. The ability to open your mind to the wealth of "data" that surrounds you is the mark of someone who sees life through an interactive, problem solving lens. The poor listener is rarely a scientist and usually a zealot - they already know everything so there's no need for investigation. Link to post Share on other sites
Porter56 Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 PUA doesn't work??!!??!! I just threw all that money away. Now David Wygant, Elliot Hurse and Adam Lyons have my life's savings. All I got was that script to read that made me authentic and genuine. Oh yeah and that shot of penicillin... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DJOkawari Posted May 12, 2016 Share Posted May 12, 2016 Thats an interesting concern. As long as something is real and observable a person can use the scientific method to create an experiment, collect data, and draw a conclusion. Love isn't an exception. These conclusions are to a certain confidence level (depending on your experiment). I noticed that we're talking about observing, collecting data, and drawing conclusions...as far as romance goes doesn't that sound like a more rigorous version of "learning from your previous relationships"? Link to post Share on other sites
Wave Rider Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 No, science and romantic success usually don't go well together. Which is why scientists are usually in labs and not out sexing up the ladies/fellas. I resemble this remark Physicists get less women than lawyers, even if the physicists are smarter. Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Pick up a guitar;) Link to post Share on other sites
mrldii Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Actually, OP, science has proven that there is no way in hell A man can be attractive to all women. Our pheromones is what causes that "chemistry" between two people...that "Oh, I don't know...there was just something about him/her, and we just clicked" sensation. It's Mother Nature's way of ensuring the best survival rate of the offspring; so no, if a man's pheromones don't jive with a woman's pheromones, they're NOT going to be attracted...as a matter of fact, they're more likely to find the other *repulsive*, without ever knowing why. Evolution: Library: Sweaty T-Shirts and Human Mate Choice 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Actually, OP, science has proven that there is no way in hell A man can be attractive to all women. Our pheromones is what causes that "chemistry" between two people...that "Oh, I don't know...there was just something about him/her, and we just clicked" sensation. It's Mother Nature's way of ensuring the best survival rate of the offspring; so no, if a man's pheromones don't jive with a woman's pheromones, they're NOT going to be attracted...as a matter of fact, they're more likely to find the other *repulsive*, without ever knowing why. Evolution: Library: Sweaty T-Shirts and Human Mate Choice So true. I was slumped over a Doner Kebab with double chilli sauce after 7 pints. For some reason she thought i was her sunlit dream. I still am. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Yes, there is if you follow all those very simple and straightforward rules: 1. Be nice 2. Be a jerk 3. Pay for everything 4. Don't pay for everything 5. Let her have friends of the opposite sex 6. Don't let her have friends of the opposite sex 7. Call her every day 8. Don't call her everyday 9. Be a 'metrosexual' 10. Don't be a 'metrosexual' 11. Don't let your feelings show 12. Let your feelings show 13. Be a man 14. Don't be a man 15. Have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 16. Don't have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 17. Be dominant in bed 18. Don't be dominant in bed 19. Be extroverted 20. Don't be extroverted 21. Have a high paying job 22. Don't have a high paying job 23. Enjoy travelling 24. Don't enjoy travelling 25. Be conventionally good-looking 26. Don't be conventionally good-looking Works every time. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Yes, there is if you follow all those very simple and straightforward rules: 1. Be nice 2. Be a jerk 3. Pay for everything 4. Don't pay for everything 5. Let her have friends of the opposite sex 6. Don't let her have friends of the opposite sex 7. Call her every day 8. Don't call her everyday 9. Be a 'metrosexual' 10. Don't be a 'metrosexual' 11. Don't let your feelings show 12. Let your feelings show 13. Be a man 14. Don't be a man 15. Have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 16. Don't have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 17. Be dominant in bed 18. Don't be dominant in bed 19. Be extroverted 20. Don't be extroverted 21. Have a high paying job 22. Don't have a high paying job 23. Enjoy travelling 24. Don't enjoy travelling 25. Be conventionally good-looking 26. Don't be conventionally good-looking Works every time. :D:D:D:laugh::laugh::laugh: 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Yes, there is if you follow all those very simple and straightforward rules: 1. Be nice 2. Be a jerk 3. Pay for everything 4. Don't pay for everything 5. Let her have friends of the opposite sex 6. Don't let her have friends of the opposite sex 7. Call her every day 8. Don't call her everyday 9. Be a 'metrosexual' 10. Don't be a 'metrosexual' 11. Don't let your feelings show 12. Let your feelings show 13. Be a man 14. Don't be a man 15. Have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 16. Don't have the exact same tastes in music, sports, food, etc. 17. Be dominant in bed 18. Don't be dominant in bed 19. Be extroverted 20. Don't be extroverted 21. Have a high paying job 22. Don't have a high paying job 23. Enjoy travelling 24. Don't enjoy travelling 25. Be conventionally good-looking 26. Don't be conventionally good-looking Works every time. Also hold her close while giving her space. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Kics Posted May 15, 2016 Share Posted May 15, 2016 Funny guys can get any girls! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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