dsgb Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 Whats up readers? Let me get straight to the point. I am a 19 year old male and I am having trouble finding a good girl. My past dating experiences have been horrible. One girl lied about everything, she was a con artist. Another girl, just wanted material things and didn't give a f#$% about me. Another girl, was cool at first and then she made me feel worthless. That is how i feel right now. The girls that are interested in me are very rude and don't really attract me, and the girls that i am interested in don't pay any attention to me. I feel like there is no girl out there for me. I am a great guy and i feel like i deserve better. I am understanding, caring, respectable, handsome, intelligent, and a lot of other good traits. Is there any hope for me? Please help Link to post Share on other sites
J.LO Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 I know exactly how you feel! Yes there is hope for you. People sometimes are impatient when in love...or trying to find love because you feel everyone has someone and you don't. But sometimes waitting is a great option. There is someone for you in this world, and it may not happen in the next few days but it will happen. It takes time to find the right person you're looking for. Sometimes it ends up being a friend that you would never think you would get with. Sometimes you even have to ask yourself..is this really what i want...and what do i want. You can't change a person, so maybe hang out before deciding to go any further in a relationship. That way you won't get hurt. Don't be afraid to ask people though, it's good to ask people out..when you have interest in them, but make sure you like their personalilty. You do need someone that respects you and cares about you, and you don't deserve to be treated like trash. And if you like someone that is rude, think before you want to date her..think about is this what you really want. You'll know when you meet the right person because you just know and you are the only one that knows what you really want and dont want. I hope i have been a help. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 You're gonna run into some bad apples, no matter how great people think you are. If you put up with it, that's when you should start worrying. Other than that, don't be their door mat. Dating's like walking across a minefield. It's always been this way, so be prepared. Link to post Share on other sites
Tinkerbelly Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 It seems like in situations like this you always seem to find what you're looking for when you're...not looking You're only 19 and you have TONS of time to date around and find the right girl. Don't stress about it so much and just try to have fun. I'm sure things will fall in to place Link to post Share on other sites
shiben Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 well 1st of all... u gotta low down on ur pride! then u gotta decrease ur level a little bit for gals then u will get a perfect gal 4 u although she wont b that smart and wont b that pretty as the kind u dated earlier. Link to post Share on other sites
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