Hannahflower22 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 I texted my boyfriend that I had to talk to him about something, but later because im busy now. He asked me if it was serious and i said sort of yes, and then he didn't respond for a bit and then he texted me saying, "your making me worried.." and he said "Now I'm paranoid" I told him it's not necessary to feel that way, I just want to talk about something. Then he called me but im at work so couldn't talk. Idk whats up with him i know I've never felt this way before when someone says they want to talk to me. What he is saying seems sort of clingy the way he is acting, all because I told him that i wanna talk. Whats up with this behavior? Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 He's acting like that because you said what people usually say when they are going to break up with someone... Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 You have time to come here and post all that but not talk to him? Next time don't tell someone you want to talk unless you're able to talk at that moment. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
deadparrot Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 If my boyfriend texted what you did, I'd be alarmed and annoyed, too. If you're texting him that you need to talk about a serious matter, you need to at least mention in passing what it's about. If you don't want to do that, then you need to wait until you're face to face and can hash the whole thing out in person. Otherwise, he's just going to sit and stew and assume the worst (that you've been cheating, want to break up, are pregnant) for hours on end. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hannahflower22 Posted May 17, 2016 Author Share Posted May 17, 2016 You have time to come here and post all that but not talk to him? Next time don't tell someone you want to talk unless you're able to talk at that moment. Well yes because hes working and im off work now so we cant talk untill tonight. I just dont get why he is so worried. I told him not to worry. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 Don't be cruel to the poor guy. Playing games like this with his emotions is not good, it may be "fun" to you to get him all worked up and worried, but it is not "fun" to him. Why go out of your way to cause trouble? Tell him ASAP why you need to talk to him. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 Well yes because hes working and im off work now so we cant talk untill tonight. I just dont get why he is so worried. I told him not to worry. Sounds very attention-getting to me. Poor guy. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hannahflower22 Posted May 17, 2016 Author Share Posted May 17, 2016 Don't be cruel to the poor guy. Playing games like this with his emotions is not good, it may be "fun" to you to get him all worked up and worried, but it is not "fun" to him. Why go out of your way to cause trouble? Tell him ASAP why you need to talk to him. Im not trying to do that at all. Especially to cause trouble, i just dont get why hes so worried and paranoid, Link to post Share on other sites
deadparrot Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 Im not trying to do that at all. Especially to cause trouble, i just dont get why hes so worried and paranoid, Maybe because you said you need to have a serious discussion and refused to elaborate further so the poor guy is now thinking up every possible bad scenario because that's what happens when people get cryptic messages from their SO? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 What's up with YOUR behavior? No one with a tiny bit of consideration and sensibility would do what you did. It's immature, drama loving and attention seeking on your part. You don't think so? You didn't know? Doesn't matter it still drama loving and attention seeking. Poor guy. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
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