HeCantBreakMe Posted May 31, 2016 Share Posted May 31, 2016 Thank you lemondrop21...I'm going to need a lot of support because I love this man I always have and always will I can't deny but I have to love him from a distance. I know he's going to come at me harder because I swear everytime I start to pull away he seems to do so. I'm getting ready to change my phone number too. Agem2161 - I just started my NC and I am not turning back this time of that I can tell you. The decision to move forward was at first a HUGE sense of relief for me I guess my inner B**! was fighting back the whole time telling me what I was doing wasn't right and I finally decided to listen to her. I have been 12 days NC and I am not going to lie some days are easier and some days are VERY difficult. I think about him a lot and when I dont think about him i feel guilty because if I am not thinking about him then maybe he is moving on too? You will have periods where you want to hear from him and periods where you hate him. I have blocked and unblocked his number so many times i really don't know what it is at this point- crazy yes. The point of the matter is men are hunters and when a man knows what he wants he will go out there and he will do anything and everything in his power to get that. If the man that you are that in love with cannot man up and make his situation right and come get you then sister let me tell you this isn't a man that you want. In my situation I am taking it as a good thing that my exMM hasn't contacted me. Maybe just maybe he is doing the right thing and working on his marriage and if he can do it and move on then so can I. If your boy does contact you ignore ignore ignore unless or until you hear the words that he is single (though in your situation I would go all FBI on him because I dont think I would trust much coming from him at this moment) Good luck! Post on here so we can support you. If you want to email him post the email on here so we can rip it apart for you :). Whatever you do - remember NC is the way to go. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Agem2161 Posted May 31, 2016 Author Share Posted May 31, 2016 Agem2161 - I just started my NC and I am not turning back this time of that I can tell you. The decision to move forward was at first a HUGE sense of relief for me I guess my inner B**! was fighting back the whole time telling me what I was doing wasn't right and I finally decided to listen to her. I have been 12 days NC and I am not going to lie some days are easier and some days are VERY difficult. I think about him a lot and when I dont think about him i feel guilty because if I am not thinking about him then maybe he is moving on too? You will have periods where you want to hear from him and periods where you hate him. I have blocked and unblocked his number so many times i really don't know what it is at this point- crazy yes. The point of the matter is men are hunters and when a man knows what he wants he will go out there and he will do anything and everything in his power to get that. If the man that you are that in love with cannot man up and make his situation right and come get you then sister let me tell you this isn't a man that you want. In my situation I am taking it as a good thing that my exMM hasn't contacted me. Maybe just maybe he is doing the right thing and working on his marriage and if he can do it and move on then so can I. If your boy does contact you ignore ignore ignore unless or until you hear the words that he is single (though in your situation I would go all FBI on him because I dont think I would trust much coming from him at this moment) Good luck! Post on here so we can support you. If you want to email him post the email on here so we can rip it apart for you :). Whatever you do - remember NC is the way to go. HeCantBreakMe- I'm with everything you said. I definitely need to knock him off the pedestal I have him on. And as you stated if he's not coming for me to say he's single and wants me and only me (after going FBI as you put it:lmao:) He can miss me with his shenanigans... I'm so over it..Return to sender at this point. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeCantBreakMe Posted June 1, 2016 Share Posted June 1, 2016 HeCantBreakMe- I'm with everything you said. I definitely need to knock him off the pedestal I have him on. And as you stated if he's not coming for me to say he's single and wants me and only me (after going FBI as you put it:lmao:) He can miss me with his shenanigans... I'm so over it..Return to sender at this point. Exactly. Remember you are the prize worth having so let him miss that prize! If you want revenge the best revenge you can give is indifference, so fake it until you make it! ( I am talking to myself here too ) Link to post Share on other sites
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