summermemories Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Today is my ex's birthday and we have been in NC for nearly 3 years. I know that sounds ridiculous but I want to really ask if anyone could help enlighten me on what I must do. I miss my ex dearly and believe we would be right for each other if we met much later in the future since we are only in our early 20's...I was his first kiss and he was my second LTR. He's currently in a relationship with something else for almost 2 years and we're both graduating college next month. Every time a romantic song is on the radio while I'm driving, I have the urge to just break NC because it DOES NOT make sense to me how an intelligent, loving Muslim young man could have changed into a drastically different person so quickly! He seemed to be extremely against "following the crowd" and he already got new piercings (from when I browsed his photos on Facebook even though we are not friends on there...yes...I know that is not healthy). At such a young age, we managed to have worked hard together to get into a top university together. I don't know where it all went....I miss him so bad....yet I declined his offer to remain friends mid-2013 after our breakup because I told him I still wanted to try for our relationship but he lost faith in trying again, evidenced by our multiple times breaking up in the past. Please please please help me anyone! I would be willing to clarify or share any other details you request. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 He's currently in a relationship with something else for almost 2 years Leave him alone.... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author summermemories Posted May 20, 2016 Author Share Posted May 20, 2016 Leave him alone.... I wholeheartedly agree with you as I have been trying hard to focus on myself; however strangely two months ago he tried to add me on Instagram since mine is private though I never accepted it. I don't understand why he'd indirectly try to reconnect me that way.... ;( it has been bothering me so much Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 I wholeheartedly agree with you as I have been trying hard to focus on myself; however strangely two months ago he tried to add me on Instagram since mine is private though I never accepted it. I don't understand why he'd indirectly try to reconnect me that way.... ;( it has been bothering me so much You're reading too much into that. He has a girlfriend, you haven't spoken in three years, so he's clearly moved on. Don't waste your emotional energy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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