JoeSimone68 Posted May 22, 2016 Share Posted May 22, 2016 She is pulling away. I don't know of anyone she's having an affair with but I just get that sense some days. Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted May 22, 2016 Share Posted May 22, 2016 How old are you two? When did this first start? Have you asked her if there is something bothering her? Are you HSD = high sex drive? Was she LSD = low sex drive? How would consider you both are? Prior to this issue? Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted May 22, 2016 Share Posted May 22, 2016 Check your phone bill 2 Link to post Share on other sites
CoolHandLuke76 Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 (edited) There are several ways to check. Pop in on her at unexpected times. At home when you're not supposed to be there or at her office for lunch. Act like it's a romantic surprise. If she gets testy over it then you have some real investigating to do. Check the phone bill. Look for messages or minutes to numbers you don't know. Especially if one sticks out and has a lot of traffic. One of my favorites is when you're together, out of the blue, ask to borrow her phone. Leave yours at home on purpose if you like. If she doesn't want to give it to you or she acts nervous, then she's hiding something. Edited May 23, 2016 by CoolHandLuke76 2 Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 There are several ways to check. Pop in on her at unexpected times. At home when you're not supposed to be there or at her office for lunch. Act like it's a romantic surprise. If she gets testy over it then you have some real investigating to do. Check the phone bill. Look for messages or minutes to numbers you don't know. Especially if one sticks out and has a lot of traffic. One of my favorites is when you're together, out of the blue, ask to borrow her phone. Leave yours at home on purpose if you like. If she doesn't want to give it to you or she acts nervous, then she's hiding something. That is genius right there. I was gonna say try a keylogger on the home computer, but I think coolhandluke might be a descendent of Sherlock holmes. Link to post Share on other sites
Grapesofwrath Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 How old are the two of you? How long together? Do you have children? If so, how old? Has she put on weight recently? Any health issues? Is there anything else that is arousing your suspicion? I wouldn't jump to the conclusion of an affair when low sex drive can be caused by many other factors. Link to post Share on other sites
snowbunni Posted May 23, 2016 Share Posted May 23, 2016 Check your phone bill Exactly right lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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