Krieg Posted May 22, 2016 Share Posted May 22, 2016 Hi, Once I knew this girl I used to work with. Sometimes we used to socialise outside of work, but always as friends. However, I used to fancy her. I never told her, as I didn't want to complicate things at work, especially as I had future designs on moving back home, two hundred miles from where I was working. I've now moved back, we're still friends on Facebook and we sometimes chat to each on it, and nothing more. As a past time I write poetry, and I'm very good at it. And as such I now send my stuff to competitions in order to win prizes. The most recent I sent five poems covering different subjects, one of which was about her. I've met many women in my life, who have left many impressions on me, but the girl I used to work with, I still regards as being the most beautiful woman I've ever met. I've met other girls who were pretty, but I think the girl I used to work with is still easily the best of the lot, and this was the centrepiece of my poem about her. The question is, should I mention this to her? My intention was to see what the results of the competition would be, and if I win, and it gets published, I would tell her then. The poem doesn't mention her by name, so no one would make the connection, unless, of course, I tell them. But either way, I'm not sure. I don't expect anything from doing this except possible gratitude, but I'm asking for opinions on this subject. Link to post Share on other sites
WhatYouWantToHear Posted May 22, 2016 Share Posted May 22, 2016 I'm a dude, so I don't have the best perspective. But this sounds super creepy. Why not just strike up a conversation, let her know you like her and then see if the feelings are reciprocated? Laying all hope on this poem being the genesis of a relationship seems really shaky, and again, creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
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