Cloudcuckoo Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 I have to agree with some of the others Laura. Be proactive to save your own sanity and when it cones down to it, he is stalking you by appearing on your doorstep. That's very creepy isn't it? Two possibilities: If he shows up tell him (through the letterbox preferably) to leave or you will call his wife and tell her where her husband is immediately. Find his wife and ask her to tell her husband to leave you alone. Take a big breath and rehearse the above.. Good luck. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
iServe Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 I applaud you for making some tough choices for the health of your family. It’s also obvious to me that he hasn’t done the same. He needs to seek some real help for his heart and struggles. Everyone in the family feels the effects of his poor choices, sorry. I want to encourage you to keep your head and your heart right. Keep focused on your kids and don’t stop dreaming for yourself and your children. Every family needs security and stability which you are providing. Therefore, please clearly communicate your boundaries to him and hold your ground as best you can. You need healing as well, find it in a support group, faith, and seeking freedom. Link to post Share on other sites
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