Retro420 Posted May 26, 2016 Share Posted May 26, 2016 (edited) After a while, I finally got the girl I wanted. We went out for 3 months and then I break up with her because I just found her annoying. I had a whole list of things I didn't like about her and that caused us to break up. I found her irritating, childish, too needy, and awkward. But looking back it at now, almost 2 months later, I realize that I did her sooo wrong and I feel bad in the inside. I finally realize now that I was the problem and not her Looking at our old messages made me realize that I took her for granted and lost a really good girl. She's moved on though supposedly and is in a relationship and I'm still single. And what makes it worse is that she has a girlfriend now. I knew she was bisexual when we went out but she was in the closet so I didn't pay it any attention but now that she's out with a whole girlfriend, I kinda feel weird. I think the combination of being single and being surrounded by couples ALL OF THE TIME made me realize just how I treated her. I find myself always thinking or looking at her in class too since we're all in the same class/grade. I really do feel bad for how things wound up between us and it's all my fault. After I broke up with her, we stopped talking to each other. I haven't talked to her since like mid-March. Walking by each other in the halls, making swift eye contact, unfollowing each other from everything..Yeah we don't do ANY form of talking. I really wanna tell her that I regret what I did and how I feel about what happened. Like I feel like it'd be nice for her to know but I feel like it's the wrong time since she's with her new partner now. I don't want it to look like I'm trying to take her back. I plan on letting her know that I'm not trying to make any moves on her etc. I really wanna tell her but I don't wanna start anything with her, her partner, or anyone else. Some people say that I'm only doing this for me and that I should just move on. I might have my eyes on someone at the moment But I can't look past my ex for some reason, and I just wanna find the confidence to tell her everything in person Can someone please, please help me out? What should I do? Edited May 26, 2016 by Retro420 Link to post Share on other sites
Conviction Posted May 26, 2016 Share Posted May 26, 2016 I wouldn't do it man. If she wasn't involved with someone, I'd say YOLO and go for it but being as she's with someone new, I don't see much good coming from it. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 26, 2016 Share Posted May 26, 2016 If you sincerely want to apologize but don't expect anything in return -- including her acceptance of your apology, because you are in the same class & the same grade go ahead & say what you want as long as it is truthful, heartfelt and polite. Be brief. Understand she may walk away; if she doesn't don't chase her. Also understand if you weren't so young & in the same class, my advise would be different for an adult. Link to post Share on other sites
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