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I wanna tell my ex how I feel about her?

Retro420

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After a while, I finally got the girl I wanted. We went out for 3 months and then I break up with her because I just found her annoying. I had a whole list of things I didn't like about her and that caused us to break up. I found her irritating, childish, too needy, and awkward. But looking back it at now, almost 2 months later, I realize that I did her sooo wrong and I feel bad in the inside. I finally realize now that I was the problem and not her

 

Looking at our old messages made me realize that I took her for granted and lost a really good girl. She's moved on though supposedly and is in a relationship and I'm still single. And what makes it worse is that she has a girlfriend now. I knew she was bisexual when we went out but she was in the closet so I didn't pay it any attention but now that she's out with a whole girlfriend, I kinda feel weird.

I think the combination of being single and being surrounded by couples ALL OF THE TIME made me realize just how I treated her. I find myself always thinking or looking at her in class too since we're all in the same class/grade. I really do feel bad for how things wound up between us and it's all my fault.

 

After I broke up with her, we stopped talking to each other. I haven't talked to her since like mid-March. Walking by each other in the halls, making swift eye contact, unfollowing each other from everything..Yeah we don't do ANY form of talking.

 

I really wanna tell her that I regret what I did and how I feel about what happened. Like I feel like it'd be nice for her to know but I feel like it's the wrong time since she's with her new partner now. I don't want it to look like I'm trying to take her back. I plan on letting her know that I'm not trying to make any moves on her etc. I really wanna tell her but I don't wanna start anything with her, her partner, or anyone else.

 

Some people say that I'm only doing this for me and that I should just move on. I might have my eyes on someone at the moment But I can't look past my ex for some reason, and I just wanna find the confidence to tell her everything in person

 

Can someone please, please help me out? What should I do?

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I wouldn't do it man. If she wasn't involved with someone, I'd say YOLO and go for it but being as she's with someone new, I don't see much good coming from it.

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If you sincerely want to apologize but don't expect anything in return -- including her acceptance of your apology, because you are in the same class & the same grade go ahead & say what you want as long as it is truthful, heartfelt and polite. Be brief. Understand she may walk away; if she doesn't don't chase her.

 

 

Also understand if you weren't so young & in the same class, my advise would be different for an adult.

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