romeab Posted May 27, 2016 Share Posted May 27, 2016 My ex and i broke up 3 months ago after a 3 yr relationship. The first weekend after the break up she started seeing someone new. She told me a week later that she was already seeing someone. I didn't want to see her but we kept on seeing each other and kissing and giving each other hugs. She kept on seeing him so i decided not to talk to her after a month after our break up. Towards the second month, i asked to get back with her and in a way seemed desperate and her response was that i was too late and week afterwards, she was in a relationship with him. Afterwards, i messaged her once or twice but she messaged me few times trying to start a conversation and i told her that i don't want to talk to her anymore. Just couple days ago, i ran into her on a bus and she started tearing up and i decided to keep on the same bus and get off her stop. I ended up giving her a hug that day. An hour later i get a message from her saying that she is feeling sad. I asked her about what and she told me that it doesn't matter. The next day she was talking about doing harm to herself because people won't let her be happy? From what i got from talking to her was that she wasn't happy with her parents? Her family is conservative so maybe she told her parents about the new guy? When i asked her for details she told me nothing and when i asked her why are you asking for help from me? Her response was that she finds comfort in me? Really confused... Link to post Share on other sites
Larryville Posted May 27, 2016 Share Posted May 27, 2016 What does this mean about my ex girlfriend? Does she want me back or something else ? Ok I'll bite.... *My ex and i broke up 3 months ago after a 3 yr relationship. First of all you break up for a reason but ok…. She told me a week later that she was already seeing someone. Likely was seeing him while y'all were still together, but ok... And you took that to mean what? I didn't want to see her but we kept on seeing each other and kissing and giving each other hugs. Contradictory She kept on seeing him so i decided not to talk to her after a month after our break up. Did you read your own stuff before you posted, that makes no sense… Towards the second month, i asked to get back with her Why? and in a way seemed desperate and her response was that i was too late and week afterwards, she was in a relationship with him. What!? Afterwards, i messaged her once or twice but she messaged me few times trying to start a conversation and i told her that i don't want to talk to her anymore. Seriously!? Just couple days ago, i ran into her on a bus and she started tearing up and i decided to keep on the same bus and get off her stop. I ended up giving her a hug that day. What!? An hour later i get a message from her saying that she is feeling sad. I asked her about what and she told me that it doesn't matter. ??? The next day she was talking about doing harm to herself because people won't let her be happy? ??? i asked her why are you asking for help from me? Her response was that she finds comfort in me? You both have some deep seeded issues, just as in another thread some people are addicted to drama because they need the drama to give meaning to their lives. Some people have the basic common sense to avoid this type of craziness. So you post this thread to say what or what do you want to hear, that it is perfectly cool to engage in soap operaISH human activities? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted May 27, 2016 Share Posted May 27, 2016 She wasn't happy anymore being with you so she thought by finding someone new she would find happiness there. She found out the grass isn't always greener on the other side and this guy didn't fulfill her like she thought it would. Now she is feeling a little helpless, and is confused about her feelings. The only way she can find happiness is within herself, but atm she can't and it's upsetting her, so she finds comfort in you....someone familiar. She doesn't want you back. She is still keeping some distance as to not give you the wrong idea. In time she will finally find her way. If you want to support her out of the goodness of your own heart fine, but don't mislead yourself that this will rekindle your relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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