mortensorchid Posted May 28, 2016 Share Posted May 28, 2016 Last weekend I had an encounter which I posted on. For more information (and reactions of others), see this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/mind-body-soul/sexual-reproductive-health-practices/582077-animal-within There was an aftermath to it, quite unexpected on my part. Quite honestly, I had had a lost weekend or two in the past, I figured this was just that. It was just the inner animal within, and that would be that. Not exactly, there is an update I'd like to share, just because... The encounter happened on Friday night. I went home, Saturday he called me and said "Let's hang out." I said okay. I mean, honestly, I did not know this guy, right? Odd as that may sound. We went out to dinner, then we got to know each other a bit better. He's a good guy, from what I know of him thusfar. And we continued it with more ... You know. After we did IT again, I said to him "Listen, I know we don't know each other, we don't. And I realize from chatting with you here that you and I are very different people. I think this was something brought on by alcohol. If this weekend is just this weekend, that's okay with me. It is." He said no, no, it's not like that. I asked "It's not?" He said I'm not like that. He acknowledged a few things that I did, that we are too different to be bf/gf, that we are both going in different directions, etc. But we are going to be friends at least for a while. I was kind of blown away by this, but in a good way. He's leaving for NYC for an acting gig and he'll be gone for the next six months. I will (at least as of this writing) leave here for a summer job in another state for two months. I said "We're not, you know, going steady because we're going to be apart and we can't really do that." He said "That's fine, but I still want to see you until we both leave." And I saw him tonight, it was just cuddle time on the couch watching TV, we didn't have sex, and we kissed good-bye. I'm going to see him tomorrow maybe. This is a day... Link to post Share on other sites
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