nickf100 Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 Hi, 28 M. My gf and i dated for 5 months and broke up. During that time she hung out alot with two guys who she said were just friends. I broke up with her, but yesterday she said she still loved me and tbh i still love her so im thinking about getting back together. She said she needed to come clean and said that those two guys who were friends were actually ex bf's. They sometimes fooled around but before we dated. She is a massage therapist and said that she also gives hand jobs, but only before and after we were dating. In your opinion am i setting my self up to get hurt? My brain is clouded by love right now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 Oh yes, your fears are justified, this girl is too shady. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 So, she's already established herself as a liar. I'm sure she only fooled around and provided handjobs ONLY before and after you both dated. Shady. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 The cream has gone sour. You'll never be able to fully trust her again. What you do about that, is something you'll need to think long and hard about. Make sure you do. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Keke1 Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 The cream has gone sour. You'll never be able to fully trust her again. What you do about that, is something you'll need to think long and hard about. Make sure you do. Yea man the trust is gone. Please don't go back to her. Unless anytime she hangs out with friends you won't think anything is going on besides just hanging. She messed up not you. Don't make a mistake and take her back 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Dis Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 Hi, 28 M. My gf and i dated for 5 months and broke up. During that time she hung out alot with two guys who she said were just friends. I broke up with her, but yesterday she said she still loved me and tbh i still love her so im thinking about getting back together. She said she needed to come clean and said that those two guys who were friends were actually ex bf's. They sometimes fooled around but before we dated. She is a massage therapist and said that she also gives hand jobs, but only before and after we were dating. In your opinion am i setting my self up to get hurt? My brain is clouded by love right now. She sounds more like a prostitute than a massage therapist. Move on hun....the trust is broken and the girl is sketchy 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Cinnamonstix Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 Surely there are more women for you to date than ones who touch men's penises for money. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 You do realise that men pay for a 'happy ending' massage? It means she's a prostitute 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 29, 2016 Share Posted May 29, 2016 You already broke up with her once. Why do you want to go backwards, especially now when you have found out new negative info & no positive info about her? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
frus69 Posted May 30, 2016 Share Posted May 30, 2016 It's not even really about trust now, it's about "why are you dating prostitutes" 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted May 30, 2016 Share Posted May 30, 2016 She is a massage therapist and said that she also gives hand jobs, but only before and after we were dating. Yeah Five month long relationships usually stop massage therapists from giving handies. Your ex or whatever she is performs sexual acts for money. You think her story about not doing it while you dated is real? if so, I have oceanfront property in Kansas to sell you. You dated a prostitute. the only thing you need to do is get an STD test and stay away from her. Seriously are you this foolish to believe her? lol. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted May 30, 2016 Share Posted May 30, 2016 One gets what one deserves. If you know what she does for a living and gives out hand jobs as part of her job (Or so she claims) then that alone should make you think about your choice. Time for you to wise up friend. How do you know it's not just hand jobs? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author nickf100 Posted July 17, 2016 Author Share Posted July 17, 2016 Thanks for your responses guys, you knocked the sense into me that i needed and what i deep down already knew. Looking back at it now it seems like something that would happen in a movie. I'm taking a little break from dating for now. Link to post Share on other sites
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