after 2 years of no contact, i think he left breadcrumbs as an anonymous

[Norajess]

Hi Everyone! it has been a year since i last logged in.

Life is greeeeat. I got a new job which is amazing and i'm really, honestly happy with what i have right now.

 

So, i posted about 2 years ago how my ex went overseas for studies and we broke up, he got a new girl and since then i've moved on(still single, but excited to meet new people), just yesterday i randomly logged in to my Tumblr only to find that someone has dropped me a question.

The thing is that persons username is made from a word that me and my ex used to say just between the two of us, it's a word formed using my name and i am 95% sure only the two of us uses it.

 

so this person left me a question- '2014 saddest year of my life. Decisions were made. Left home to a foreign place. Left someone special. Divert all the pain to someone else but till date, still suffering every now and then.....' blahblah and ended with 'What should i do?'

 

i've got a feeling this is from my ex my best friend and sister told me to respond to it to see if he will reply, to just confirm if it is really him.

But i'm just thinking of 1) ignoring it 2) reply to this person to tell him to move on because everyone has to make their own decisions and you just have to accept the consequences

 

why will i wanna choose 2)? the thing is i've known him for 5 years, together for 4, and since 2 years have passed since our breakup i just want him to be happy and continue on with his life. He is quite pessimistic sometimes, i just wanna advice him to learn to love himself first.

 

I'm not really hoping for reconciliation for now, i really wanna meet new people

So what do you guys think?

[VeveCakes]

My vote is ignore.

[basil67]

I also think you should ignore.

[teenyfish]

If you're not interested in reconciliation, then just ignore. If you might be open to it, answer, but don't expect anything back.

[Satu]

I would ignore it.

[kidm]

Let me add my vote to ignore.

[Zapbasket]

Another vote to ignore. If he has something to say to you, see if he has the balls and maturity to say it to you directly.

 

Definitely sounds like it's him...but it only "matters" if he puts his actual name behind it.

 

But mostly: if you feel like you want to be free to meet other people, then just ignore. He has not given you anything worth responding to, to begin with.