sublime01 Posted June 2, 2016 Share Posted June 2, 2016 So to cut a long story short, I was with a girl for a year which ended in November 2014. She decided things were moving too fast, started acting strangely, hid her phone when she got a text in my company, spoke at length to one of my pals but ignored me... all this stuff. So I decided enough was enough and I just left her too it - cue her wanting to come back. She was '' heart broken '' apparently yet her behaviour dictated otherwise - taking three days to reply to a text, even though I gave her a second chance, coming up with excuses to not hang out etc.... Anyway, I finally left after a couple of weeks of this and completely deleted her from my life. Around XMAS 2014 I get a text telling me how much she misses me and never gave her a chance - I did - so told her to just leave me a alone. Then in March I get another text telling me how heart broken she is but again her actions betrayed her. Around 2 weeks after this I get a text telling me how happy she is in a new relationship - WTF? She has never been this happy apparently in years, etc etc. The issue I have is I gave her a couple chances and she still behaved like a dick... so why is she trying to hurt me this way? She is the one who wanted to leave! People are so insane. In september last year I get a text from her telling me how she still thinks of me and Brian ( my dog ) and my mum.... and asks to be friends!!?? She still occasionally looks on my Linked in profile - last time was a few weeks ago. She has also commented on FB posts between be and a mutual friend ( who does not really speak to her anyway ), calling us '' babes '' when we posted a pic together. The creepiest one was when she parked her car right outside my house though when she went to see people opposite me with her new BF - she clearly wanted me to see it as there were many other spaces! I get this is slightly immature and I should probably just forget it - but its bugging me as to why people behave this way? She wanted to leave, so she did... she wanted to come back and I gave her 2 chances and she still behaved like a dick yet i'm the bad guy? Do I still have a feelings for her? Probably a little.... But overall I don't think about it everyday tbh. I have thought about making contact - as I have been very dismissive when she tried to speak to me ages ago. I cant decide if this would just make me end up feeling worse. So yeah - girls - is she mental? Insecure? Link to post Share on other sites
Buddhist Posted June 3, 2016 Share Posted June 3, 2016 She's got issues you're best not involving yourself in. Stay NC and hope she drifts out of your life at some point. 2yrs is a long time to be stalking an ex.... Link to post Share on other sites
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