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Just finding it difficult to find friends


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eternalspotless

Hi

 

I'm 32 and I live in London. I have just finished college and am due to begin university in September. I feel disappointed because I didn't really make any friends at college - I was close to one girl, but now that college is finished, she doesn't really talk to me. I've tried to talk to her a few times, and she basically just keep repeating what I was saying back to me - I took that as she just wasn't into what I was saying, so I haven't contacted her since.

 

I have another friend but she lives in East London so we don't really see each other much.

 

I have discovered the website MeetUp but as I am currently trying to lose weight I don't feel 100% ready to venture out.

 

I just feel so lonely and bored. I have this vision that once I get to uni things will get better, but that seems so far away. I just feel so fed up.

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You're stronger than you think and need to be braver than you care to be. Go join clubs of interest or join with known friends of your own sex. Go do things with siblings or family where they feel obligated to share with you. Just get out there whatever your image or self image. Just be confident no one really cares who hurts you and those who care will share their stories with you.

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