xrobertx Posted June 4, 2016 Share Posted June 4, 2016 (edited) I know so many of you have gone through something along these lines. Two years ago I met a woman who completely changed my life. We got so close in such a short period of time and I fell in love with her in a way I've never felt before. The problem though was that she was from Thailand and I had NO idea how different the culture was as far as dating, behaviors, actions... how to react to her and the different things she did or said. It caused a huge misunderstanding between the two of us and we separated. I was really hurt at first but angry and blamed her for a while. After that, because of the work I did, I got heavily involved in the Thai community in Queens and I learned so much about the culture. It was months later I realized it was actually MY fault and it made me feel like absolute ****. My daughter and my little family loved her and I felt like I destroyed that. I've been trying to win her heart back ever since. The good thing is I have continued to move forward in life. In that area I'm doing very very well. Good job. Take care of my daughter and my family. So I'm not stuck in a depression or anything. But the heart wants what it wants. She's not just a normal woman to me who can be replaced. And I would rather go on fighting than to settle for a situation that doesn't put a fire in my heart and soul the way this woman did... Hopefully some of you know exactly what I'm talking about. I created a video about it. I'm hoping she'll see it at some point... but I know if I message her the link the second she sees my face she'll stop watching LMAO... aaaaaaah... Anyway good luck to any of you who are going through something similar. No one knows the future. I truly believe anything can happen. You really never know. Here is the video. The video was made to show people just how much she touched my life. I hope to transfer some of the same emotion to anyone who takes the time to watch. [redacted url] Edited June 4, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator redacted url ~6 Link to post Share on other sites
privategal Posted June 4, 2016 Share Posted June 4, 2016 Well I couldnt see the video...but my advice? The video sounds very desperate. She wants a man. Try a break at least to let her miss you maybe but geesh...a video is a little high school sounding. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted June 4, 2016 Share Posted June 4, 2016 You can't post the link to it here, but can you describe what's in it? I think we could get a better sense of the situation if you explained what led to the break-up. You mentioned there were cultural differences - can you elaborate on the misunderstandings this created? Link to post Share on other sites
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