aliveagain Posted June 10, 2016 Share Posted June 10, 2016 I'm, 40 and he is 20. He has a fiance,and I have been in a relationship for the past 20 years. I have never cheated on my S/O until a few weeks ago. It surprises me that I feel absolutely no guilt in what I did. Is this normal? As I sit here waiting for an oversea conference call I thought I would state my personal point of view that nothing in your first post is normal. Your in a twenty year relationship with your significant other, having sex with some guy you work with is not normal. An affair says you have little respect for your partner in fact so little that you will happily sneak around with another man without his knowledge. If you have so little respect for him why are you in a long term relationship with him? Infidelity is not a sign of a healthy long term relationship it is a sign that something is horribly wrong. Cheating implies that you have lost hope for your relationship. Having an affair with a guy who is young enough to be your son and not even old enough to go into a bar with you is another issue and is further disrespect for your S/O. How we treat others is a reflection on ourselves, your first post just about says it all. There may be a greater difference in personalities then you both realize and you need to look deeper into that with your counsellor. Your relationship is in trouble, serious trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted June 10, 2016 Share Posted June 10, 2016 (edited) After review, this thread will remain closed. ~T Edited June 10, 2016 by William 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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