itfigures Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 He is TAKEN..Yet he still behaves like he is AVAILABLE..experience needed GEEZ.......Who here has had experience with this sort of thing??? SOMEONE PLEASE!!! Answer this question: What are the signals that guys put out to show that they are "available"? ****and what if the bf seems to put out these signals whenever there are chicks milling about, yet he has a girlfriend? IS it POSSIBLE for said bf to still be in love or love his gf yet give out these "available"signals with no intention of following through???????// Backround INFO: BF professes undying love, talks about marriage and babies...bf initiated relationship...talks about future...blah blah blah Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 Hmm.. There are a lot of things people may do to seem available... When you're out with your BF does he hold your hand OR does he drop it when the 2 of you go in some place.. Does he introduce you to female friends as his "Friend" OR as his "Girlfriend" When the 2 of you are in public places does he try to avoid any physical contact with you.. like holding your hand, standing close or seeming familiar with you... Link to post Share on other sites
scared shy Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 I'm curious as to what signals he puts out to seem available. Examples needed in order to form opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 Tell us what he does, and then we can help interpret if they are indeed 'signals of availability'. If you're looking for signs of something, often you'll find them, and it's entirely possible that you're being overly sensitive/insecure. My girlfriend used to accuse me of 'flirting' with any girl she thought was more attractive than her. The fact is, I'm a friendly guy and I often make strangers laugh. It took her a while to accept that about my personality and realize that I'm not flirting with somebody just because I talk to her. I think the first step is to figure out if he really is trying to signal his availability, or if you're just worried that he will and trying to find the evidence to back it up. Link to post Share on other sites
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