TrustedthenBusted Posted June 15, 2016 Share Posted June 15, 2016 Doesn't this describe most cheaters? Isn't it how they HAVE to be to cope with what they're doing? I'm seriously asking. Cope? Interesting word choice. My wife called it compartmentalizing, which is another fancy term people can use to push at least some of the blame on to their subconscious. I prefer to accept the reality that cheaters are just doing what they want to do, which is enjoy both relationships at the same time, and take what they want from both partners. I think just about everyone understands that having your cake and eating it too is...well...ideal, but irresponsible. The rest, to me, is psychobabble. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sub Posted June 15, 2016 Share Posted June 15, 2016 That was a false sense of trust. For all you know he was cheating on you, too. How do you know he was not. Really? If she has no reason to think he was, why even go to this place? I don't see how it would make her feel any better to plant this seed in her head when she's struggling with trust issues in her new R. Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted June 16, 2016 Share Posted June 16, 2016 I don't understand why you're even interested in pursuing a relationship with this guy at the moment. Sure you might have had a strong emotional connection while married, but that part of your life is now over. You don't even know your value on the open market, and it could be that you are way way out of this guy's league and not even know it. Link to post Share on other sites
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