Clearsky Posted June 9, 2016 Share Posted June 9, 2016 Hi everyone. I'm in a poly relationship (two girls loving the same man) I need to know how to handle insecurity with my boyfriend. I always need constant reassurance and I admit I am emotionally needy. We talk a lot on what's on our minds and have good communication, but my insecurities are driving him away. I need to know how to handle it and reassure myself and be a stronger person, emotionally. Any help is appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
Buddhist Posted June 9, 2016 Share Posted June 9, 2016 Are you really sure poly is for you? At what point in the relationship with your BF did it become poly? Were you GF #1 or #2? Do you have another partner besides your BF? Who's idea was it to be in a poly arrangement and what was the rationale? How long have you been poly? Not trying to drill you but perhaps with this information you can get better answers because then the source of the insecurity is easier to pinpoint and help you address. Also others in poly or have been in poly relationships may understand the process you are going through. I am not poly, have never been and very likely never will be. I just know it's not a situation I am emotionally equipped to handle and to be honest I have little interest in it. For me trying to maintain a relationship with more than one person would be emotionally exhausting and I would find it difficult to have a partner with multiple relationships even if I was monogamous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
juniorrocha Posted June 9, 2016 Share Posted June 9, 2016 What are your insecurities? Link to post Share on other sites
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