ConfusedSoul Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 my main thing is I'm so mad at myself for letting myself be so upset still I should be over it,but i am not. when I don't think about it I dream about it. now its a think about it issues its haunting me something horrible. I'll tell ya what happened if it matters or not.. sooo We are friends in Jan then we start to go out around the middle of Feb as a romantic couple thing. Now he was wondering he took me on the most wonderful dates I've have ever been on and I've dated a few guys not like I don't have experience on that note. And did such thoughtful thing like make my fav meals himself for me and was so attentive. and when i was sick* have have Corhns disease* he took me to the er and sat there with me for the entire time. now normally i got a 6th sense about if the **** excuse my French is going to hit the fan but i seen no signs at all. everything was fine he broke up the weekend after i got done taking care of him from his dental operation ie cleaning up blood making food he could eat playing nurse maid for him coz i wanted to take care of him. I seen him that next Saturday night and the next day i dropped by his house to surprise him with a little token that I heard him talking about it wasn't much just a silver Celtic ring nothing fancy and he was pleased with it. and then on the car ride to my house home he dropped the bomb on me and I'm like wtf. he's excuses were my parents don't like you and think i deserve better,and your sick. and when people date they date i had fun but this has to come to and end. i was devastated i guess i should of known because this man has bi polar disorder but in my mind Tim like gezz im sick and i hate for someone to not give me a chance because of something I can not control. ya know? Then I find out a week later he was dating another girl the entire time he was dating me to put the icing on the cake basically. sigh anyhow that's the story Tim sure you all heard it before but i figure i share and all. just wish i could put it all behind me people say only you can make you feel bad bs! it hurts like heck when someone u care for breaks your heart you can not control that. I just realized I posted in the wrong thread im sorry about that Link to post Share on other sites
Sal Paradise Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Dumping you because you have Crohns is pretty heartless (I have Crohns as well so you have my sympathy). The good thing is at least you found this out really early in the relationship. Forget about him there are plenty of guys out there who won't care what their parents think, nor care about your illness. He's a loser, he can't do better but YOU can. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedSoul Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 Thank you I know your right. I guess it just times time for the after shock to go away right? Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 I know it su*ks, but there are lots of people out there who are fair-weather boyfriends/girlfriends/friends/family. Better to find out early on in a relationship than when you're far too emotionally invested. I was also once dumped by a guy when he found out I was a cancer survivor. There are people who just can't handle the "big stuff". I'd rather be with someone who will be with me in good times and in bad....that's what a true friend will do. Remember, time does heal. It's okay to mourn the loss of expectations and future -- on the other side of grieving is hope. Please spend time with friends and family that love you no matter how healthy or unhealthy you are -- they are the ones who will get you through it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConfusedSoul Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 thank you i just wish the dreams would stop that is the horrid thing that really gets me sad in the am waking up to sucha dream Link to post Share on other sites
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