caira Posted June 11, 2016 Share Posted June 11, 2016 I am so upset this girl who I thought was my friend hugged everyone in my church group goodbye last night except me. She just looked at me and said goodbye when I said bye and walked past me out he door. Why would she do this?? I feel like she doesn't like me and wanted to hug everyone except me. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 11, 2016 Share Posted June 11, 2016 Welcome to LS Life is imperfect. Has your friend hugged you before? You her? How does your friendship go otherwise? Link to post Share on other sites
Author caira Posted June 11, 2016 Author Share Posted June 11, 2016 Welcome to LS Life is imperfect. Has your friend hugged you before? You her? How does your friendship go otherwise? Yes she has, she hugged me last Sunday and used to hug me all the time. I dont know what happened Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 11, 2016 Share Posted June 11, 2016 Then IMO default to life being imperfect, she being imperfect and next time move to give her a hug and express your appreciation for her friendship. You can have no idea why she didn't hug you since you can't read her mind so don't bother with analysis, rather move on to your next interaction. IOW, take each interaction as discrete and unique. If the friendship interactions work for you, they do. If not, move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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