Moneynthepower Posted June 12, 2016 Share Posted June 12, 2016 I posted on here about a previous thing with my ex boss, great affair and what we shared was genuine feelings. She cut it off claiming it was due to her family and husband but she has serially cheated on this man so I don't buy that she is being a so called "good girl" . I was pissed when things ended sexually within a relatively short period of time with it starting because she spent forever convincing me to fool around with her. She blatantly disrespected this man with me and would claim she thought of me while ****ing him out of obligation, she would say " I am forsure married to the wrong man" and speak about how she more or less was crazy about me. She wanted to keep talking daily... I cut it down to weekly... I then began to suspect she was on her fb talking to another man all day and night. I told her I was going to delete messenger and I didn't believe she was being good. She promptly blocked me on fb .. I called tried to get her to see her absence makes no sense and the notorious liar she has been doesn't help her case. I think she has found new excitement and called her on it, now she's pissed, blocked me and says she can't trust me lol. I think staying no contact is the only way to not think of her. But I do look forward to speaking to her, I just don't understand how she could go from piping hot for me for a year to no longer "into it" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Hamilton Posted June 12, 2016 Share Posted June 12, 2016 You're not going NC, she went NC on you. This is now sliding even further into the high school "you aren't dumping me, I'm dumping you." Let it go. We said a month ago she was dumping you and that, as a serial cheater, she was into the conquest, not the person she was trying to land. This wasn't a big love of the ages and considering how erratic your behavior was becoming, she most likely moved on due to a mixture of "been there, done that" and self preservation. And I wouldn't rag on the husband she's disrespecting too much... For what she did to him, she is doing to you. You are the same guy in the same situation, only she chose to stay with him. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted June 12, 2016 Share Posted June 12, 2016 Affairs are fantasy encounters. Waywards go thru a lot of compartmentalization and denial and just focus on the fantasy. You are not being compliant with this just being a fun fantasy scenario with no hassle. Waywards in full throttle are selfish individuals. You either comply or they move on to someone that will. Did you really expect that she'd be respectful of your "relationship" or of you? If she respected others, she would have either fixed her marriage or been honorable and left it, so her husband would be free to do the same. She wants it all, bud. She figured you were either amoral or a sucker. You can choose one of those or another path. It's up to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted June 13, 2016 Share Posted June 13, 2016 Expose her to her husband. I mean she is a cheater and you thought she would treat you differently. The more the fool you are if you believed that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted June 13, 2016 Share Posted June 13, 2016 The chase is over and now she's lost interest. Why did you get with a serial cheater? Now you're concerned she'd disrespecting her husband, but it didn't bother you at the time you were fu*k**g her did it.? Your ego is bruised that's all. When a married woman chases you, I'm sure you're old enough to know she's bad news right? A wife who spreads her legs for another man isn't what any man would want unless he's a cuckold. She used her power as your boss and you caved. Why would you want her anyway. Move on to someone else unless of course you're married, as this thread is in infidelity and not The OM/OW forum. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted June 13, 2016 Share Posted June 13, 2016 OP: You became an inconvenience and have been discarded. Put this behind you and find a real relationship. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted June 14, 2016 Share Posted June 14, 2016 I just don't understand how she could go from piping hot for me for a year to no longer "into it" You're concerned the cheater you were cheating with is cheating on you with someone else? And she was your boss? I'm really hoping these weren't the best plans you could come up with... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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