smudge21 Posted June 20, 2016 Share Posted June 20, 2016 We never know what we've got until it's gone. Dumpers often find that out and by the time they do, it's too late. Onwards and upwards. He had his shot, now it's time for someone else to win your heart, and keep it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted June 20, 2016 Share Posted June 20, 2016 Good for you OP. You voted for your own happiness. A+ 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted June 20, 2016 Share Posted June 20, 2016 He's back with "serious" intentions, even talking about putting a ring on my finger to make me understand that he is serious and that he loves me. SADLY I don't CARE anymore. He can stick that ring up his a** because I will not forget all those very dark days that I had to go through because of him. He wants to meet up and talk in person. EH blahhhhh. What would you do?LOL Keep on with your bad self I absolutely love the bolded. Bahahahaha made my day! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 We never know what we've got until it's gone. Dumpers often find that out and by the time they do, it's too late. Onwards and upwards. He had his shot, now it's time for someone else to win your heart, and keep it. Agree 100%. On the road to success! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 Keep on with your bad self I absolutely love the bolded. Bahahahaha made my day! LOL thanks. Moving forward onto better things. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 Good for you OP. You voted for your own happiness. A+ Thanks Satu. I recall your advice before. I've come a long way since then. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 When a relationship ends it's for a reason no matter who was the one to say "It's over". I found out the hard way that when you get back with that person, the problems in the relationship are still there but their just re wrapped in a different color paper and bow. Sooner or later they float to the surface again. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 What would you do?LOL Knowing the history I would say "thanks but no thanks" and carry on as I am! This guy just... well he doesn't cut it for me. I am not one to go back and rehash things. If it didn't work before then chances are its not going to work again. There are very few people who get back together and stay together. Those that do it tends to be a very short term split that is a flakey split in the first place and not an all out "end" like this... Nah. Don't waste your time. You are having too much fun and enjoying life with out him. Keep to that and someone who wants to do that with you rather than just have a piece of your happy pie (as I suspect he does) will be along in no time! Well done you for doing so well and pulling yourself up! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 Can you guys believe this guys had the balls to contact me to tell me all of this just TWO weeks after his last GF. TWO weeks. The past six months, while i've struggled to move on, he was having the time of his life and now he wanted to come back like nothing.I had the urge to punch him in the face, because what the hell did he think I was?. I think he thought he could come back into my life and go as he pleases. UMMM NOOOO. This still makes me angry. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 Can you guys believe this guys had the balls to contact me to tell me all of this just TWO weeks after his last GF. TWO weeks. The past six months, while i've struggled to move on, he was having the time of his life and now he wanted to come back like nothing.I had the urge to punch him in the face, because what the hell did he think I was?. I think he thought he could come back into my life and go as he pleases. UMMM NOOOO. This still makes me angry. Actually yes I can... Because that is what spineless cowards who can't be on their own and need validation from others do... You did good to kick him back to the curb... Shows you have far more going for you than he does... that you have high worth and know that he would just be using you to stroke his ego... and that he knows it! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
gaig Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 Can you guys believe this guys had the balls to contact me to tell me all of this just TWO weeks after his last GF. TWO weeks. The past six months, while i've struggled to move on, he was having the time of his life and now he wanted to come back like nothing.I had the urge to punch him in the face, because what the hell did he think I was?. I think he thought he could come back into my life and go as he pleases. UMMM NOOOO. This still makes me angry. If you wanted to punch him in his face...well, you could have tormented him a bit more just to get a taste of what you had been through! haha and this is a guy speaking 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 Can you guys believe this guys had the balls to contact me to tell me all of this just TWO weeks after his last GF. TWO weeks. The past six months, while i've struggled to move on, he was having the time of his life and now he wanted to come back like nothing.I had the urge to punch him in the face, because what the hell did he think I was?. I think he thought he could come back into my life and go as he pleases. UMMM NOOOO. This still makes me angry. Not surprising at all. Just as fast as he jumped onto her when he dumped you, he's doing the same thing now with this ex. This is why I believe his return isn't based on any type of emotional depth or awareness. You made the right choice. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 If you wanted to punch him in his face...well, you could have tormented him a bit more just to get a taste of what you had been through! haha and this is a guy speaking I did, but I realized that was wasting my energy. Not worth it. Revenge is living good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 Actually yes I can... Because that is what spineless cowards who can't be on their own and need validation from others do... You did good to kick him back to the curb... Shows you have far more going for you than he does... that you have high worth and know that he would just be using you to stroke his ego... and that he knows it! Im ashamed to have dated someone with such low morals. SMH but yes LOL. Im very content with my decision. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 21, 2016 Author Share Posted June 21, 2016 Not surprising at all. Just as fast as he jumped onto her when he dumped you, he's doing the same thing now with this ex. This is why I believe his return isn't based on any type of emotional depth or awareness. You made the right choice. thank you. I will continue to live better and better by the day. Just a minor roadblock in life. Link to post Share on other sites
juniorrocha Posted June 22, 2016 Share Posted June 22, 2016 Well, that guy seems desperate. Good thing you got rid of him. He probably jumped into another relationship only to realize how great you were to him, but yeah, too late now. You're such an inspiration, I hope to become you one day and feel 100% sure about never ever going back with my ex. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kztar Posted June 22, 2016 Author Share Posted June 22, 2016 Well, that guy seems desperate. Good thing you got rid of him. He probably jumped into another relationship only to realize how great you were to him, but yeah, too late now. You're such an inspiration, I hope to become you one day and feel 100% sure about never ever going back with my ex. Hi juniorrocha, It's not the easy thing to do as there are still residual feelings but it's the right thing to do. With time, if you start reflecting and looking into the situation you come to logical conclusions rather than emotional ones we make while the breakup is still fresh. Some people jump into relationships right away like my ex did and then realize they made a mistake after not taking the time to actually reflect on the breakup. Not to go back to their ex but to make their own relationships better in the future. One day you will reach that point, where you still care for the EX, yet there's no way in a million years you would take them back. Even if you had the opportunity to do so like I did. Once im fully moved on. I will come back to loveshack and share my story. I know that for me this website has tremendously helped me in ways i've never imagined. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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