is it a rebound and do i have a chance to get her back

[Blanco]

I think you're missing the point. He's not trying to share a tactic to trick your ex into coming back. He's telling you what to do so you can move on and not waste time hoping for a lost cause.

[Densel]

densel

did you get another chance after no contact and disappearing

 

chris,

 

as of today, no i did not get another chance to reconcile.

I did not contact her as well.

 

7 months since broken up. I logged off facebook, I never got my stuff back, I never return her stuff. I just dont care anymore.

 

I became tired of pinning for her to come around. I still love her but i am not waiting for her to come back rather i am waiting for her to dropped off from my heart.

 

I woundnt say i am very happy now but i am contended with my life.

 

Go do things that needs to be done in your life. Make your health a prioity. After every heart break, you tend to feel weak(side effects of break up).

[Orion39]

She's made it clear that she wants nothing to do with you. Hard to say when this attraction to the other guy started to develop, but at this point it's not your concern as she is with him and not you. I know relationships can make us do crazy things and sometimes wonderful things. In this case, you tracked her down that one morning and then wound up being arrested because of your actions. When a girl doesn't call or doesn't answer, she wants to be left alone and there is nothing you can do about it. I've been there, girl I was dating goes back to her ex that she promised she was over-I go crazy always calling, contacting on-line etc. In the moment we think we can do or say something to win them back or change their minds, but as we all are free thinkers with free will it's not up to us to make them love us or like us, they have to choose. She has to choose who she wants to be with and sooner or later you have to live with that choice.