russell490 Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 hi this is my first post....... anyway i know this girl i really like her. but when i see her in the school i go all shy and walk the other way. the thing is i all ways talk to her on msn and wen we are texting each other but when it comes to face to face i cant say anything, it i fell really stupid. i really need help what do u think i should do reply quick plz from russell490 Link to post Share on other sites
Becki Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 just talk to her face to face! how are you gonna overcome your fear of *thinking* your gonna look stupid if youre not prepared to confront it. if you can easily talk to her on msn and text her, just dont panic when you talk to her face to face! Link to post Share on other sites
shiben Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 stupid inspirational statements, like u shud just 4get about fear and blah blah... never work! u shud approach the problem as... u r ok in text messages rite? Now try 2 call her. u r not facing her but only her voice.. m sure u will b feared in this also but this will cause less fear and continue this practise untill u r totally normal wid talking 2 her on phone. After this approach her in person... again u will feel shy but this time the shyness will b a lot less which wont lead 2 ne kind of stupidity. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 just talk to her face to face! how are you gonna overcome your fear of *thinking* your gonna look stupid if youre not prepared to confront it. if you can easily talk to her on msn and text her, just dont panic when you talk to her face to face! Great advice. Definately lead up to doing phone calls. This will allow you still communicate more freely, but still give you that safety net of not talking face to face. Make sure to tell her you're shy...You can tell her that on IM right? Well, try saying that on the phone. Just speak from your heart, let her know that you really like having her in your life and she makes you smile and feel good. To build up confidence, (yeh, this might sound stupid and gay, but it DOES work) stand infront of the mirror, look at your reflection and have a conversation. (Obviously your reflection is her) Do this alone, throughout the day. Preplan what you'd like to tell her...Maybe asking her about her interests, hobbies, what makes her laugh...Share funny stories, humour is always a good shield to hide behind when you're feeling nervous. Have some eye contact when you're talking too. I wonder if she's as nervous as you are! I bet she is and maybe she's feeling the same way about you! Keep posting and good luck! I know you can do this! Link to post Share on other sites
Author russell490 Posted June 27, 2005 Author Share Posted June 27, 2005 thanks for the help people Link to post Share on other sites
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