Should I call him again or is he just not interested?

[justagirl1121]

hey, guess none of us have had much news lately huh? Hope everyone has a happy valentines day anyway!

 

the weather is so freaking sucky. took me over an hr and i cldnt get the ice off my car! i called my friend to see if she was going to work and she's like 'i was crying cuz i was so pissed!" i was like meeee too. freaking ice. i took half a sick day but my dad called and said its better just to take whole day. its not too hard to tempt me u know? just so boring. i went from being all im just going to stay home to being like im just going to go in...to now being like ok i'll call off. haha

 

i talked to my buddy last night for a while. he's too funny. he left this long voicemail the other night around 12:30am and i iddint hear my phone ring but he was like 'i'll put my phone on the window sill so if u call and i can see it light up i'll call you back" haha cracked me up but i feel bad he doesnt have the service. but i called on his house ph and we talked for a while. he made a few interesting comments...but sometimes i cldnt understand what he said haha. he made some comment in reference to our "love affair" nad what ppl wld think or something. so i made some comment like eh who care what ppl think. haha. so he said he might be coming back next week so i need to keep my opts open. so hopefully he'll remind me and we can hang out.

 

i guess im taking the whole day off. haha. sweet. lets hope im not too bored!

[justagirl1121]

hmmmm hey where is everyone? just talking to myself here...started late shift....training for my new position at work.....

 

just thought i'd mention, i rented the movie Accepted. the one about the fake college. LOOVEEEEE it! Here's why....main character Bartleby...sooooooo is my friend! From the looks and facial expression to the way he talks and acts. Cracks me up. especially the..."oh. Snap" so if you saw that you'd know my friend, pretty much! LOL....

 

ok yawn...time for bed!

[phyrespryte]

I'd so go after that Bartleby guy. He's hot. Except when he's in those mac ads...

yuck. Then I just want to slap that smirk off of his face.

 

So how's things with that BB guy?

 

I called Steve the other day. We talked about nothing. He seemed glad that I called. He said that maybe we can talk in person now, instead of awkward smiles and waves. I said something about thinking he was acting weird and he said that maybe he was.

[justagirl1121]

Hey......haha so you know what i mean with bartleby. i looked the actor up on IMDB and he doesnt really look like BB other than the accepted movie.

 

anyway, nothing real new with BB. who knows. he did call me on tues i think it was but i missed the call cuase now for my training im working till 11:30pm. he was like just wanted to send you a congratulatory call and see how you were and so on and so forth. blah blah. so yeah he sounded interested in seeing how i was...but when i called back he didnt answ. he was trying hom enad we know how the srv is there....

 

so he didnt let meknow he was in town today as he mentioned the other week. didnt do that with our other friend either. oh well.

 

 

so the steve thing was ok? thats good. yeah hopefully you can be less awkward in person and who knows down the road....?

[magichands]

This thread has 21,000 views. That's insane.

[justagirl1121]

21,000 views....hadn't really noticed. Does that mean that initially our thread looks interesting but really isn't, or just that they can't keep up with us? Really, that we've been going on about this for like one and a half years and still haven't really managed to get somewhere is kinda sad....but that's for the stupid boys. Not our fault!!!

 

Where's parmalot? Maybe someone found some luck!

 

So my situation is not really any different. He sent a text earlier that one of our trainers went to visit him in the store b/c he was in the area visiting the gf. BB called me on his way home from work and we talked for like 15 minutes. He mentioned he'd been hanging out with a girl a bunch.

 

Ok so my question over that is....why mention it? Other than the fact that we were discussing what we've been up to...or lack of...not that hanging out with the opposite sex means anything all the time. Guess I'm kinda concerned. Ok, so I'm jealous...I don't like that. Got me all worked up. I don't like being a girl and being detail oriented. Grrrr..he did ask when i was going to be in the area though. He is supposed to be in wed or thur night this week. it was pushed back a week i guess. i told him to let me know, maybe we can have lunch. he definitely knows i work 3-11:30 so hopefully we can fit something in and see.

 

really wish i could read minds or skip to view the future for a bit.

[phyrespryte]

21,000 views!

 

Hot diggity dog! That's some crazy stuff. I feel like there should be some sort of celebration or something, but I suppose that would be more appropriate for 25,000 views?

 

Anyway, Hi Justagirl,

 

I'm not sure why he was telling you about that girl. Maybe he's interested in that girl. Maybe he's just making small talk. I don't know if it's worth worrying about. This is the guy that lives far away isn't it?

 

I'd be a little careful about falling for him, since he lives far away and just mentioned that girl. Plus I thought he was only going to be just a friend? And this is kind of off-topic, but isn't weird how the guys you seem to fall for...live far away? I read somewhere that sometimes people are attracted to people that are unattainable because they're afraid of having a relationship. That it's this thing that keeps happening so that they don't really get involved with people and then get hurt. This might not apply to you. Just thought it was interesting.

[justagirl1121]

Hey there,

 

yeah i dont know about hte friend thing or whatever. keep going back and forth. dont know if im afraid of relationship or commitment or not. i guess i was just trying to figure out if it was just small talk or if hes not interested but thinks i am interested in him and said that so i'd back or or what. not that he has to worry. im not going to make any real move on him. that never got me anywhere but total avoidance and i dont want to ruin friendship.

 

guess it'll be up to him and i'll have to see if we get to hang out this week. if he comes down and if it'll just be me and him or the whole group. its really up to him. i just cant tell.

 

yep he does live further away. about an hr and a half maybe. that's not that far since thats the same distance to most of my friends. i think im bi polar or something. i cant make up my mind. ultimately i do keep coming back to i have feelings for him. so anyway

 

last day of training today. food day party as well so lots of yummy food. kind of nervious about tmr. not sure why. im taking a lot of the basic knowledge with me, but still....before i didnt have access to fix certain things and i cld send ppl off to tech for issues and be done, but now im the one responsiible for getting it fixed. eeeek..

 

anywhoo, have a good day!

[justagirl1121]

hey what happened to u guys ?

[phyrespryte]

Sorry, things have been hectic. Last week was finals and the week before that I was prepping for a photo show. Both went well. The show went better than the finals though. I've got someone interested in buying one of my prints, which is exciting.

 

Stuff with Steve has been bland. We talked a couple of times in person. Each conversation as thrilling as dryer lint. I think it's because he's a boring person. I've never met someone with so many drinking stories. I mean come on! Grow up already! It's not cool to black out and have some random person come into your unlocked apartment to turn off your radio.

 

Anyway, little bits of excitement with Steve:

- He honked at me after I was talking to some guy outside of school.

- Ran up to where I was sitting and tried to surprise me. Then sat down and talked for a bit.

- Random arm poking every once in awhile.

 

I don't get why he's so flirty, but maybe that's just the way he is.

Oh and remember that guy that asked me out? Ugh. He won't quit!!! It's so annoying. I told him I wasn't interested in dating anyone, but I guess I should've been more direct.

 

Yup, that's about it. No worries about calling any guys, since I've decided to stop dating for now. Which for some reason...is attracting more guys. Like the other day the guy at starbucks winked at me and invited me to some drum thing. It's bizarre.

 

How's things with you Justagirl?

[justagirl1121]

Hey, there! Good to see you didn't get abducted or anything. Sometimes you never know...I can't believe we've been doing this thread this long haha.....it's like a journal, only like a handful of people participate....

 

Anyway, I wish i were still doing stuff like you're doing, instead of dealing with dumbasses. I guess yesterday wasn't that bad...

 

Not happy with my schedule. With coming and going out of training it keeps changing. It was m-f 3-1130, but t and f it was 230-11. new schedule starts so i only get today off (sat) and i work sun-thur 1230-9...but day after easter that m-f i go back for more training 6-230 and then i only will get that sat off again and i'll go back to my s-th shift 1230-9...i dont know whether im comin or goin, awake or asleep, i feel ill i cant eat blah blah blah!

 

my itunes songs keep skipping. i thought digital was sup to be better!

 

anyway, abt steveo....so he's boring? Are you still into him? i know sometimes we dont know why we like ppl that way. and when u do its like they're the most awesome person in the world and u cant see why no one else wld see it the same way....at least thats how i feel.

 

i cant tell if he is just naturally like that or if hes interested. kinda seems like its a tiny bit of both. what u said abt the excitement with him, its very like confusing...i wldnt know what he meant by it. i'd think he was trying to show interest. but then i have bad luck in this area and so if a guy so much as smiles...

 

see theres this guy at work; may have mentioned him before butn ot sure...hes married and all. hes cute. hes funny. i get a long soooooooooooooo well with him. its great. dont have like a crush on him or anything but we've become pretty good coworker friends. i just wish other guys wld act as he does. it's like....he knows me. like he sees me the way i see me. other ppl think im shy or dont get certain things...its hard to explain...i just feel he gets what i mean.

 

the boys were talking abt vid games and now they're online with eachother its halirous but gets old hearing them talk for 4 hrs abt same topic...but i chimed in abt my games. i dont play likle they do but i got a nintendo when i was 6 and i have a ps2 now and i play computer games etc and they were like thats so awesome. other ppl just like turn their heads and dont even bother listening.

 

anyway, theres that other guy whos like 30 with a 5 yr old kid. may have mentioned him but not sure what nickname id may have given him. maybe BS or something i dont know. they wre giving out green carnations at work u cld buy for ppl and it was donated to some charity...BS and i had a few words thru txting and he made a comment abt "hopefull that carnation put a smile on your face"...well i didnt get a carnation...prob cause im homeless at work (w/o a desk for afew weeks) and was in training and they didnt find me...and he was talking to our friend (friend of BB's) and she said to me that he was saying stuff to her......i was like oh great. he hasnt been very talkative towards me lately....hmmm

 

as for BB himself....im going to john mayer concert in ohio in july with my friend and a college friend of mine will be there too haha...and so will BB! i just hopes i get to see him before that. i told him in a txt and he said we will def get together...but it hasnt happened yet. i told him not to be such a stranger, and he said i wll def talk to you soon...so we'll see if i do.

 

everyone at work, like who i went out with last night, some of hte girls..were like he's such a nice guy. haha. BS i cld get but BB i cant. its so

frustrating......

 

remember that dude i met like 2 yrs ago...i think ive m entioned him as well. havent seen him sicne aug of 05 and he'll always ask what im doing and if i want to hang out. im like omg how persistant is he going to be??? well i may actually go hang out at dave and busters today..........i figured maybe that makes me desperate or something...i mean not like im going to date him or anything but i decided i just wnated to have some fun and since he is onlyone trying and theres no connection to ppl at work to start gossip...well maybe i will...will most likely chicken out tho....but i'll let u know...

 

did u go to the drum thing the starbucks guy invited you to? mmmmm starbucks.....love that stuff!