Should I call him again or is he just not interested?

[Sand&Water]

I just stumbled upon this thread. Whoa, there is like only 2 or 3 people posting in here. Well keep it up, since I don't know what you've been talking about.

 

From the title of the thread, and your post, justagirl1121 I'm saying it's very much related to guys, and interest level.

 

I haven't read the entire thread, since My Lord, that would be close to impossible. Dismiss me for that.

 

Just wanted to add that, with patience I'm sure you'll find yourself a wonderful guy, justagirl1121 and goes with the general population. Just as long as romance is kept away from work environments. but there are exceptions to the rule.

 

It must be pretty sunny in the USA. And you know how they say, sunny conditions make for lethal human combinations.

[elijahBailey]

....why is no one posting to help us or share their patheticness to show that we're not the only two in the world!!!!

 

well, I, uhm...... I'm pathetic too. I'm in a committed relationship and when I get hit on, I wish I was out of my current relationship. Ain't that even more pathetic

 

why do you run from girls that come on too hard? And what exactly is coming on too hard?

 

hey girl, good question. And I really wish I've got the answer to that. Guess it's just human nature; same for the girls as it is for the boys. You want it even more cuz it can't be got.

[phyrespryte]

Thanks Walk for your reply.

 

I thought it related. Or maybe I'm just at a point where any type of insight helps to make things a little clearer. And I guess it makes sense the more you date the more people want to date you. My friend has that problem sort of. Except it's more like the grass is greener on the other side and it's hard for him to get past the 1 month mark.

 

And thank you Sand & Water

 

Now that I think about it I probably should've included a summary of what's been going on, but I don't think the details are too important anymore. Just been wondering lately why it's so hard to get past that whole like thing and into the dating thing. Like I'll meet a guy there'll be that whole weird flirting, staring, teasing thing going on...then nothing. Very annoying.

 

And Elijah...

human nature sucks.

I guess it's all about waiting until I run into a person that defies nature?

[phyrespryte]

I get the evil glare too! There's this girl amy at work who is on my team now. She has crazy hair. It's short and sticks out and it multi colored. She has a thing for Bobby and I dont think they talk anymore, but everytime you walk by bobby or say anything to him you see her head snap towards us. I guess I kinda feel bad for her since I can see where she could be feeling jealous or unsure or something about what's going on.

 

Wow! What is with these weird girls? I'd feel bad for her, but there's no reason to be glaring. You know? Unless someone's done something real bad to me I won't glare. Actually I'm lying. I used to glare at this one guy's girlfriend.

But it just annoyed me that she would always come into my store and not once acknowledge me. And when I ran into both of them at the theater she totally ignored me. We've never been introduced, but still she could've looked at me and smiled.

 

Ugh I'm a weirdo.

[phyrespryte]

:bunny:

 

So tomorrow I have class and I have all these big projects due and I haven't started anything!

 

Oh and I get to see foreign guy! Unless he decides to skip. Which I would be doing also except this is the last week before final week and I kind of agreed to help someone out after my classes. Who knows what will happen?

 

I can't focus tonight. I've tried so hard to come up with an idea for this thing I'm designing and I've come up with so many ideas, but I hate them all. I'm such a perfectionist. Which is a bad thing because it means I'll never finish anything.

 

Anyways how's life justagirl? Haven't heard from you in awhile? How's the job and the bobbies. Hehe Bobbies. Have you seen the new x-men movie? How was your memorial day weekend? Mine was kind of boring. I went to this party where I was the most talkative person there. And since I'm not a talkative person that was really bad.

 

Oh well.

 

Enough procrastination for tonight I think. :bunny:

i love bunnies!

[Guest]

Hy, I just found thid forum, and well, I'd like some help...

This guy I've been dating for about 3 months told me a few days ago, that he wasn't sure if he still loved a girl from his past...and well, I got her e-mail adress after some searching, and she and I talked. We talked about lots of things and then we talked about him.. She said she only loves him as a brother, but he told me that she wanted a relationship with him (ugh! I know this is confusing, but please help me).

So when she messaged him asking about me, he got so mad at me.

He told me that I knew that he was undecided and I just took his desicion for him, because now she won't fight for him...

 

Yes I know most women would say forget about him, but we all know what it's like to care for someone so much that you're willing to take certain things...

 

Now the last thing he told me was that he needed some time to think about things, and not to try and contact him for the rest of the week.

How do I know if he'll call me back?? Should I call him anyway?? I mean what if he decides to just leave me and go with HER???

 

I'm going crazy and it only happened 24 hours ago, I can't wait for the whole week!!!

What do I do???

 

Going crazy, thanks anyway for anyone who might answer.

[justagirl1121]

Hey, there! Well, I wouldn't necessarily say it's a "glare" but that's what we call it. I guess if she is into one of the bobbies then she is always snapping her head over to the action.

 

Because i've run into her a few times going around the corner, you'd think she'd smile and be like whoops but no. i dont get ANY expression at all. it's not really a mean expression, its just that becaue there is none it is unfriendly. so the other day in the break room at lunch time *ha lunch at 7:30pm* she said soemthing about what time did i work till and i answ her and she said something lilke "i didnt realize" and im not sure what that meant. but i told nicole (we're always whispering about amy and bobby lol we're terrible; this is waht our lives amount to!) and she laughed and was like "i told brooke!" *we're like the three amigas*

 

Anyway, my memorial day was ok. it was my dad's bday so i dont really do anything. jon was having a party but they really pissed me off. i was really irratated. like 2 weeks previous when id' talked to jon on AIM, he'd been like "having a party on memorial day. you should come" and that was that. very loose. timmy would ask a bunch tho. so on monday, i was on line for a few and tim msged me RIGHT away. the convo went something like thsi

 

Tim: Avoiding people?

Me: No

Tim: Ah

Tim: Going to Jons?

Me: I don't think so.

Tim: WHy not?

Me: Because no one ever called me or gave me details or directions.

Tim: Jon asked u a few weeks ago. i havent talked to you since last tuesday.

Me: Well, i guess not because by the time i get ready and evertyhing it'll be too late anyway.

 

then he said soemthing else and i started to go into how the invite i got is really just a loose invite and if you're not going to call and say hey you gonna come? then im not going to kiss their butts. that's gross anyway. i mean look at his remark abt not having talked to me all week like its my fault, like u dont have my #, because i dont live on AIM like u do...the whole 'avoiding ppl' thing really pissed me off. i mean what kind of ? is that? the only 2 answ are "yes" and "i dont live on my computer"

 

anyway, even after that i never did call a call so go figure.

 

so when is started to say what was on my mind timmy stopped talking so i just got annoyed and logged off.

 

 

TODAY, tho, Jordan, man that kid is really getting on my last nerve. im starting to just plain not like him.

 

he's always bashing my job over one thing or anothing. so tonite he asked why we can't choose our own cell phone number so i was on my cell on mobile IM and i basically was like because its system generated and we don't have access to reserve numbers.

and he goes something like weak, you should get to choose. whoever set that up is a terrible person.

and i said 'first, ou get a local num, you can choose the prefix. if we let anyone pick whatever number they wanted we'd never get them off the phone. they'd be like 'hmm can i have 4050? no? how about all 2s? 3456? all 0s? my name?

 

then he mentioned he picked his own number in like 2 min. and i was like lucky you.

 

and he goes 'see nwo that's not good customer service. that's really imature and u need to wor kon that.'

 

so i was like im tired of you criticizing all the time and he said something about not taking the job so damn seriously.

 

so i said i wouldnt have to defend it if you would stop bashing it.

 

and he said soemthing about it shoudnt be so important b/c its not the best company and that it should just be a steping stoen and i act like its the last job i'll ever have.

 

and i said im not acting htat way but i like what the company offers me and i dont see why ppl can just be happy i have something i like instead of something that pays me nothing and screws me over.

 

and he goes 'its a job not a man'

 

and i said 'good, because im not very fond of man right now'

 

and he goes 'it sure doesnt sound that way from your attitude'

 

then i stopped because i had to go back on the phone and do my stupid worthless job.

 

i was so annoyed. i still am. give me a break.

 

that's about that. hope ya got your work down. i was horrible at getting things done. seemed the more i tried to be organized, the more lazy i became! what kind of projects are they? and did u see foreign guy?

 

i almost called him ugly naked guy lol.

[phyrespryte]

Now the last thing he told me was that he needed some time to think about things, and not to try and contact him for the rest of the week.

How do I know if he'll call me back?? Should I call him anyway?? I mean what if he decides to just leave me and go with HER???

 

First off, it was wrong of you to seek out his friend like that. That's a bit obsessive and it makes you look bad(like a stalker). If anything you should've got rid of him. His honesty was good and all, but he's not ready for a relationship with you. Since you want more from him you should've let him go and figure out what he wants.

 

My advice:

Don't call him! Give him his space like he asked. Do everything you can to keep yourself busy. And if you do think about him then ask yourself if you really want to be with a guy like him. Personally it would bother me greatly that he's so unsure of what he wants.

[justagirl1121]

I don't remember seeing that previous msg by guest....but i would definitely take Phyrespryte's advice. I think it sounds sound....

 

i havnt been around much...been doing all kinds of overtime. Gettin alittle worn out from it. off the next two days. THANK YOU JESUS. Today really wasnt bad at all. my adherence was good. i had a lot of quick not too problematic calls. i think it'll bring up my stats. sun & mon were hell. ugh. today tho i had this guy i had to help send a txt to unsubscribe to this thing and he didnt know how and he had a really old ph where the menu to send a txt is really quite diff than even some of the newer older phs....then when i told him to write "stop" in the body he's like how do i do that. and i was like oh god i have to tell him how to do it. then im like ok how is the phone set up? as abc mode or like word mode? i was like ok press number 7 4 times quickly to see the S. ugh. julia, my neighbor was laughing at me.

 

anyway my lifes been dull...i even bore myself! anything new on your end? is foreign guy still here or is he completely out of the picture?

 

theres some guy that comes down n talks to this one girl whos name is concetta. he's kinda short. never heard him talk or anything never even really saw him face on, just from the side...but i dont know...theres an attraction there. just thought id mention that random it will never go beyond this fact

[phyrespryte]

Hey Justagirl!

 

Sorry for not responding sooner. Things are a little hectic over here. I'm going to Amsterdam in less than 2 weeks to study abroad. I'm going insane! There's still so much to get done!

 

I've given up on FG (foreign guy). There's this end of semester thing tonight and he'll probably be there...but I've decided to not go. Why?

 

The last class we had together was a shortened class and we didn't have to stay. We were talking and working on different stuff. Guess what he was making? A missing person's flyer for Shaggy! Because he hadn't seen Shaggy in 4 days. And worst of all Shaggy is in our class! When Shaggy came in FG showed him the little flyer! Then when he finished it he left class.

 

I've come to the conclusion that FG is gay. Seriously. Perfect opportunity for us to hang out one last time and he blew it.

 

I wonder if he called me this past Saturday though. I got 2 phonecalls from a number with the area code of my school. And one weird voicemail message that kind of sounds like someone saying FG hangup! I can't tell the damn message is all fuzzied up. I hung up on the call the 2nd time by accident. I've tried calling it back but they never picked up. And I can't find the number with a reverse search on the yellow pages site. GRRR. It's so weird who would call at such random times? 6pm and 11:45pm?

 

But whatever. He's got my number, my email, and I don't know. It ain't rocket science getting in touch with a person. I mean I knew how to find him. Feh.

 

Anyways that story about the guy asking you how to text stop was hilarious! My teachers always say never underestimate the consumer...they're smarter than you think... Um yeah right.

 

So tell me more about this short guy? Have you found out any details about him? Name...single...not single?

 

Well I'm off to do some laundry... hope you have a great weekend

[mikethmn]

How can a post like this go on forever?

[phyrespryte]

How can a post like this go on forever?

 

 

Because it can

[justagirl1121]

 

Because it can

 

haha

good answer! you tell em!

 

i know nothing more about the shorter guy.

 

however, i did have an interesting experience at the mall today. im not sure if i was being hit on or trying to be sold something....im thinking the latter....ha and i showed him!!!

 

i walk by a t-mobile kiosk and this kid goes "hey miss" (i always avert my eyes when i walk by these places for 1. i dont want to be sold a ph nad 2. i dont want to see the place selling for the company i work for if im off that day)

 

so i go over and he's like "so what brings u to the mall today?" and i said "gift cards for the gap" and he asked if that was my fav place yada yada....then he goes "so if you had a 1000 dollars and could go to any store here what would it be?" and i wasnt sure. i saids the limited. and he's like "so you like some of the more professional stuff, not like charlotte russe or...." whatever...haha he knows the stores better than i do!!! LOL

 

anyway then he asks me if i could only have one kind, strawberry, chocolate, or vanilla, which would it be?" I said chocolate and he says he would to. and goes on about something to do with chocolate is like a treat and blah blah and wouldnt you always wnat to be happy?" or something...

 

then he asks how old i am. then he asks how old do i think he is? i said like 26 lol. he was like whens your bday? i said nov . he says what day? i said the 2nd and goes mines the 17th, so you're older than me! blah blah...(ha i guess i just insulted his age; im never good at guessing) and he continues to say something like 'and you look good for your age, im not gonna lie to you" (huh? thanks? i think...) and so then he asks me what ph i have. i said verizon. he asks to see it. and i was like "ok but i gotta tell ya i work for them." and so he's asking me how much i pay and stuff. adn then that was basically it. he said have fun shopping at the gap and i said have fun selling t-mobile!

 

weird?

 

weird.

 

 

so hey, when u go to amsterdam, you going to be able to keep this thing going, since some ppl think this is impossible.....

 

do u know the 'we all went down to amsterdam' song? with the three fishermen, jacob, issac, and abraham?

[Guest]

I would say..if you want to call him call him...but i guess if he was interested he would call you but maybe all guys are different and there just isnt some rule...i always deal with the same problem

[phyrespryte]

I would say..if you want to call him call him...but i guess if he was interested he would call you but maybe all guys are different and there just isnt some rule...i always deal with the same problem

 

ok I will do so when I meet another guy.

 

Hey Justagirl. I think I've heard of that song...except they sang it at my church? I'm not sure. That'd be kind of funny though since Amsterdam and church seem a bit um..they don't flow.

 

T-mobile guy was weird. I wonder if that's all part of his selling style or he was flirting with you? Or maybe he was flirting with you, but he's just a flirty kind of guy. Like he thought you were cute, but he's got a girlfriend or something.

Anyways. A compliment is a compliment.

When you hit 40 you could pull a Demi Moore and snag yourself some hot young'un.

 

And when I go to Amsterdam I can definitely keep this going! I'm sure I'll have plenty of moments where I should be doing homework and I'll be lurking on here instead.

 

To be honest though I'm really not excited about this anymore. I guess I'm really naive. (understatement of the year) But I didn't realize that there were so many pot heads at my school. I was talking to my one friend and he was telling me about how most of the people either were really into it and other stuff or they occasionally fooled around with it. And Amsterdam is all big about that junk.

And I'm not saying that it's a totally horrible thing that people like to smoke weed. But it kind of bothers me. Like is that the only way for these people to be creative? I don't know. I also find it kind of a turn-off. It's not a deal breaker...but it's kind of disappointing.

 

Oh well. Lots to learn next week. I guess. I really hope that my roommate isn't a psycho. We're both leos and I'm sure that she'll piss me off at some point. Oh and I forgot to mention this...but she's my nemesis too. The same girl that was all over foreign guy.

 

I know horrible. But apartments there are expensive and I really didn't want to be alone. Plus she had been really nice to me lately.

[phyrespryte]

I said...sure I can keep this thing going. And boy was I wrong. I'm over in Amsterdam and I can barely get internet. Right now I'm down the street from the Anne Frank house. I paid for wireless for 10 days by this little resteraunt called Werck. But I hate going in there everyday so instead I just chill sit by one of the benches picking up whatever signal I can get.

 

It's crazy. Anyways. Am really enjoying Amsterdam. The roommate and I get along for the most part. Even though she annoys the heck out of me at times...she really helps with the lonelyness.

 

Well I will write a proper update later. But hope you're doing well Justagirl.

[Sally00]

You know... this reminds me a lot of a Sex & the City episode. That show isn't about sex... it's about LIFE. It really is. There's a lot of wisdom in that show.

 

But Carrie's boyfriend just flat out tells Miranda (who's been seeing a guy but hasn't called her yet) that the guy just isn't that interested in her. Her friends thought that it would hurt her feelings and told her, "Noo he'll call you. Don't worry. He likes you." But the truth was what she really wanted. She then felt happy for the rest of the day. She didn't feel like she needed to waste her time anymore.

 

Eh, I just thought I'd share that.

[sunshine2627]

Hi girls! How is everything? It has been awhile since I last posted anything here. I have been busy with work and playing volleyball. Is it true when people say the best kind of relationships usually start out as friends first? I am one to always rush into things and my relationships have failed. So I told myself that I need to do something different. Start out as friends first and see what happens. This takes a lot of patience and understanding on my part. This is what is going on. A couple months ago I ran into a guy I used to date several years ago. The only bad thing is, he is in the middle of getting a divorce. A couple days later I found him again on myspace so I sent him an e-mail. Just a friendly hi and asked how he was doing. I was not expecting anything from him because I knew he was married. Then one night he sent me an e-mail telling me that his wife left him. Shortly after that we went out for a few drinks. I went only going as meeting a friend for drinks he took it as we were on a date. Anyway, since that night we have spent a lot of our time ime together. We have great conversations and we enjoy each others company. There have been a few times where he has told me that he could see himself with me and I can honestly say I feel the same way about him. The only thing is we both agree that once his divorce is final that it would probably be in his best interest if he didn't start dating right away. One of this friends on the other disagreed and told him what if she is standing right in front of you? His soon to be ex-wife told him that their son who is 3 has been talking about me and seems to really like me. She told him why not give me a chance? Is she saying that to get a reaction from him? Maybe she really does want him to find someone else because she has? The other night we were talking he told me that he considers us more than just friends because we do so much together. We both know that we have to take things slow and not rush into anything because we don't want to ruin what we have right now. The e-mail me he sent me today he said he didnt want to ruin the friendship we have, company and time we spend together which contridicts what he said the other night. I know he has a lot going on right now and what he needs from me is my understanding and patience. Neither one of us imagined that we would be where we are right now with each other. We are both scared of opening ourselves up again because we don't want to get hurt. He isn't the type of guy who just tells me what he thinks I want to hear. I trust what he tells me. I know he doesn't want to hurt me intentionally. What do I do?! I really like this guy and I see a lot of potential with him. HELP!!

[justagirl1121]

HEY ALL!!! i've been on this crappy schedule 4pm-1am. i hate it!!!There's not really anything new on my end since I only go to work, come home and sleep to do it all over! And I don't even get that much sleep! I do have weekends off so I have actually gotten to go out with my friends. NIkki wants me to go to Baltimore with her so i can be her bf friend Brian because he needs a girlfriend...it wld be cool to go out but i am not interested in starting a relationship...plus these things NEVER HAPPEN!!!

 

Oh well i take that back.....haha listen to this.....

 

there's this security guard and god i think he works tonite, he's ok...he always flips the signout sheet around since Im left handed....i was getting this "feeling" he was hitting on me and stuff. Yeah so when I signed out last Friday he was like "where haveu been?" so i told him abt my schedule change. So i walk out nad he kinda goes out too and i hear him go "too bad i wont be seeing you, i can't ask you out now!" and i just kept going then it sunk in and i was like oh god! im not interested in that though. am i screwed up? isnt that what i want to happen?? then the one time it does (shonna says he is joking b/c they all do that) i am like no thanks. gah!!!! i feel kinda lonely and all i have is stupid job. i went on myspace and msged some ppl online and they only responded once!

 

we went to a club in the city and my friend and i left the others for a few to check out another room and this guy comes over and starts talking to us and he was kinda cute actually. he wanted us to meet his friends who had nicknames likek train and boob and stuff ?? yeah i dont know....then he goes, you talk to my friends while i use the bathroom.... and then nikki and i left and found our friends....i was like okkkk then she tells everyone else he was hitting on me! like she wasnt even there! oh! but then we went to another club and someone dropped a beer bottle and it had a broken neck and it had hit me on the inside of my foot and i checked and it seemed to be ok but when we went outside, i saw my foot was bleeding!!! its ok now but i have a cut on it. ive been getting so banged up lately....

 

no other boy stuff going on as usual. the original douche bag i havent seen or heard from once. unlike shonna where theytxt her and go "at the beach, wish you were here!" after they play games and hurt her feelings...like WTF!

 

at least scott is a real a**h*** and doesnt contact me again.

 

have a good weekend!!

 

good luck on the whole thing sunshine!!! he sounds much better than that other dude!!

 

glad you're liking amsterdam! what's the culture/mentality like there? How different is it? How long are u going to be over there for?

[phyrespryte]

Hi everyone.

 

I finally found out that my apartment already has internet available! Except I won't be getting the password for another 3-4 days. So that's why I haven't been posting as often. Not that my life is that exciting, but I do miss putting up every little random unimportant detail of my life up.

 

Brief summary of my stay here so far...

-love it!

-my roommate not so happy with. (she yelled at me twice already)

-tried to be a local and ride on a bike...not a good idea

-still haven't tried pot or seen the red light district

 

The two girls in my class invited me out last saturday, but they lost my number so I wasn't able to meet up with them. BUT OMG. I really missed out. Foreign guy came down from Germany to visit! One girl N, told me that he said that he knew me and that we went out on 3 dates. 3 dates!?!?!

 

I have no idea what to think about that. We only went out once and I wasn't even sure I could call it a date since he called it a "meeting". So that means a couple of things...

He considered it a date. And he's weird.

 

I don't know what to think about him. He wasn't there with Shaggy either. Which is weird since he's always with him. I kind of wonder if one of the reasons he came down was to see me? But I doubt that. I mean there's all this pot over here and his one friend...

But maybe...

 

Anyways.

 

Hi sunshine! Long time no see. I think that what you're doing...taking it slow is probably all that you can do right now. And I agree that jumping into a relationship might be bad since he's going through a divorce.

 

Honestly I've never been in a situation like that so I'm not sure what to say. I think you might want to repost your post on the dating thread? That way maybe more people will see it and give you advice? And hopefully someone who's been in the same situation can give some better insight than I can?

 

I kind of think you need to be extra cautious because I don't think that he wanted a divorce and he probably still has all these leftover feelings for her. But I really don't know anything. And I think the wife is definitely trying to get him to date other people. But I think she's only doing that because she feels guilty for leaving him. Not cause she cares for his well being or that she cares that he still likes her. It's just a selfish thing she's doing to make herself feel better. I do wish you luck though. He sounds like a nice guy.

 

And Hello justagirl!

I don't think you're weird. You can't be attracted to every guy that hits on you. But hey at least you know that people think you're hot.

Maybe you could try flirting with people? Ok maybe not flirting. But sometimes when I'm feeling bold and I see a cute guy I'll smile at him. You could do that? It's kind of fun. Most of the time they just stare at me like I'm weird. But every once in awhile I'll catch them looking at me. Or they'll keep passing by my table and staring. Oh and once...this really hot guy came up and was like...hey we're going to this bar later on want to meet up? I was so shocked. My friend was weirded out and told him no, because she didn't know I was making eyes at him. And I couldn't stop laughing because I laugh when I'm nervous.

 

Ok yeah super long story.

Sorry.

Anyways smile! It's a powerful thing. And lots of fun.

 

Oh and I'm in Amsterdam till the middle of September. I haven't decided if I want to go to Germany or San Francisco after that yet.

[phyrespryte]

So now I understand things.

Foreign guy and N used to flirt alot and they kissed once. And when he said that we went on 3 dates...he also said that we had nothing in common.

 

Then I found out from my roommate that last quarter he made out with this girl LD. Who was also in our class last quarter!!! That's why he wouldn't sit next to me. That's why he wouldn't talk to me in class and that's why he rescheduled our date through aim instead of talking to me in person.

 

I'm throughly pissed yet sort of heartbroken? And perhaps I'm still in denial, but I refuse to believe that we had nothing in common. To me it just seems like he's just keeping his options open by lying.

 

Oh well. I was throughly bummed and I went out to a club last night and got really drunk. I made out with two guys. And one of them was foreign guy's close friend. Not Shaggy, but another one.

 

 

Ugh. I feel so guilty. And I don't really know why. It's so stupid since I guess things between me and foreign guy will pretty much never happen. But I guess I still have a little bit of hope for some reason. I know stupid right?

[justagirl1121]

Isn't it funny how these boys just cant leave our lives? I get periodic updates somehow. There's a new guy at work, we'll go along w/ the nickname theme and call him BB lol...of course ther'es a new girl jc too; she's married but she's on my team. BB and her are friends because they were in the same training class. I Just made friends w/ them and teams at work are all moving around. My sup is upstairs but my team is still downstairs. jc is on my team; BB was on Bobby's team and he moved down by Nicole. I don't know waht it is with this kid, maybe just the fact that he talks to me? He's probably like 5'7, real skinny, cute but...not like "oh he's cute" cute..hard to explain. he's kinda funny tho. but it's like i just made new friends and we're all movin away from each other! GAH! I know that sounds immature it being the job and all but we all need some way to destress.

 

Anyway, I've been doing OT 2 hours all week so i've been working 2pm-1am. it's rough with this type of schedule! Tonite i am making myself come online even though i spent all day on the computer because i've neglected things all week because i come home, go to bed, get up (later and later) and rush to get ready. You should see how i've been eating. I take a huge lunch of random things and i eat something before i go but then i eat on my break lunch and break and when i get home haha. i made muffins and had some before work, ate my yogurt on my break, ate 2 muffins, a sandwich, and applesauce and a el fudge cookie or two for dinner. weird combo and my computer screen lighting just turned blue.....ok well......i have 8 hrs ot this week, im goign on sun for like 5 hrs and i wanna do 10 hrs during the week so i can get doubletime. they have some flex schedule for the week where mon or tues u can work 2 hrs extra one day and 2 hrs shorter wed or thur. i thik im going to do that and on the day that i work shorter i am doing OT like crazy. it'll work out to be abt the same, the diff is i'll be doing like 4 hrs ot in one day and get an extra break i wldnt otherwise have...

 

so with that, warm milk w/ kaluha is my new night cap lol...

 

hope things are good in amsterdam!

[phyrespryte]

Amsterdam is good. A couple more weeks and classes are over. I'm planning on hopping on a train and seeing different places during the break between classes.. The thought of it scares me.

 

My love life is extra dull over here. I went to Hamburg this past weekend for my birthday and that further reinforced it. Stayed with one of my old friends from first semester. Damn. If he wasn't taken stuff might've happened.

 

The train ride home was so lonely. We hugged goodbye and it made me realize how long it's been since I've been touched. I can't stand being single anymore.

 

My friend explained to me that I need to be more physical with people. I need to stop being afraid and reach out to other people. It's so true, but I don't know how to start. I mean I'm so afraid of getting into someone's personal space and them pushing me away.

 

I've got this penpal on myspace. He's extremely good looking and a great writer. And he lives on the opposite side of the U.S. Now the opposite side of the world We've been corresponding sparodically for about 6 months now. We have awful response time.

 

Well recently I've been getting a different vibe from his letters. Then the last letter he responded faster than usual (1 day vs the couple of weeks we usually take) made a comment about crossing paths in Europe and how he looks forward to my letters and hopes that I will write back sooner. The previous letter he complimented some pictures I had and said:

 

" and, as a side note, you are absolutely stunning in those fancy photos you had up a while ago. try not to take that as a creepy myspace come-on; i just had to say something."

 

I think I reading too much into it. And it honestly makes no sense to me. I wonder if he really does want to meet up. But if he did why hasn't he told me when he'll be in europe?

 

Oh well. I'll see what happens. This will probably be guy #4. 6 more rejections and perhaps I'll finally get a yes?

 

****foreign guy update*****

last quarter was far more eventful than i thought.

he is now banging er uh i mean dating one of the teachers.

 

What a douche.

[leogirl]

Don't fret so much about it Even i was in situation where i didn't know if i should call not call whether he likes me he doesn't like etc.. With my ex with men few things i realised it

1. If they like u they will call u no matter how busy they r or how far away they r. If they dont return u r call more that 2 times then just dont call back.

2. Let him make plans and ask u out. Dont make it easy by planning etc. Let them plan and decide

3. Call back protocol after much hit and trial i realised that when u r busy and dont call back immediatly it kind of makes guy wonder wat ur busy with and they get more intrigued about it.

Read that book "He is just not that into you" Most men doubts will be cleared for good.

[justagirl1121]

hey all!!

 

Sorry I haven't posted sooner. I've been pretty busy. In the last two days, besides work, I went to Cleveland, OH for the weekend, a concert to see John Mayer and Sheryl Crow, and drove 5 hours down to Baltimore. This has been a looong week. My best friend moved down there with her boyfriend. Im still stuck at home. My mother says I'm not allowed to go back down there because I'm a young girl and blah blah blah. She's pissing me off. My friend wants me to move down there but I don't really see how that's gonna happen any time soon. She was trying to hook me up with her boyfriend's friend Brian. He WAS cool. Kinda nerdy but kinda cute. I guess I'd give it a go, but what my friend doesn't understand is that first of all, my parents are embarrassing and i wldnt tell them abt him anyway or want him to meet my parents. Secondly, how the heck would I go visit this kid? I live at home so he cant come here and I don't make enough money to do all this travelling.

 

My work friend said I shouldn't date him just because I can't find anyone else....though I think if I take that advice then I would never date anyone you know? I doubt he likes me anyway so I figure I'll just leave it at that and I havent talked to my best friend all week so I'm just letting her be the one to call. She hasn't harped on me all week about it after she did the day after I met this kid.

 

I'm so glad it's a 3 day weekend! Only 5 more days and I start my earlier shift at work!! 10:30-7:30. I lose extra pay though, which ends up being a car payment but oh well I guess. I need to clean and go shopping.

 

Hope alls well in Amsterdam!