Why Shy Inexperienced Men Should Consider Dating A Fat Chick

[losangelena]

One little detail, before you start on this very noble quest: you do realise that these 'fat chicks' have to actually, you know, like you, yes?

 

Oh, of course they don't, Emily. They're fat chicks, after all. Don't you realize that all overweight women are excited, nee grateful, if and when any sentient male human takes the slightest interest in them? They're so nice (and so inflamed with desperation) that they immediately drop to their knees and give the guy a blow job, obviously.

 

 

And jesus, if a man would ever ... develop feelings for one of these fatties, why, she'd be so overwhelmed, her head and vagina would explode simultaneously.

[Mr Scorpio]

And yes i'm being serious. I know this thread will possibility offend some people, but please hear me out and the reason why I think this is potentially a good idea.

 

You know what else might work? Treating women like human beings with thoughts and feelings rather than as stepping-stones for selfish gain.

 

And for what? So that when one approaches some "hot broad" they can sidle up to her knowing that they nailed three "fat chicks" last month and therefore they're obviously leveled-up enough to take on someone worthy of their Machiavellian machinations?

 

Plus if you date a girl who's fat but not too fat, they often have a nice asss because it's trick and curvy. If you ever watch porn, there's some fat but curvy girls with nice bodies and especially a big fat asss.

 

And to think that some ladies say chivalry is dead!

 

I really don't think it's a bad idea to lower your standards a bit if you're starting out in the dating scene and you know you're not going to be attracting these really hot chicks anyways. Sometimes you have to start low and get some experience before you can date better.

 

Certainly. Because any woman who has excess adipose-tissue attached to her body is clearly objectively inferior in an easily quantitative-manner (BMI - (bra-size / # of days you have to wait before she puts out)).

[Buddhist]

Can't wait for Dark Horse to approach women on the street. I think he should take a buddy with a go pro along because the footage will go viral on YouTube.

[Poutrew]

Gee, this is such a funny thread

[LookAtThisPOst]

Believe it or not, just like tall women, some overweight women won't date thinner men because...well, they are bigger than them, leaving them horizontally challenged.

 

Some women don't want to appear bigger than men both horizontally and vertically believe it or not.

[Lorenza]

I have a chubby friend. Pickiest person I've ever met when it comes to dating. Her current boyfriend looks really good and is super social.

 

Carefully, OP. What if it's going to be you a fat chick exchanges for a better upgrade, once she realizes you're as shallow as a puddle on the sun?

[ChocolateRain]

And yes i'm being serious.

 

 

I know this thread will possibility offend some people, but please hear me out and the reason why I think this is potentially a good idea.

 

 

So let's just say you're a shy guy who's not the most attractive person in the world and because of your shyness around women, you've never had a girlfriend before. I think it would be a good idea for you to consider dating a girl who's overweight (or not the most attractive) at least to start out so you can get some experience with dating and here's why.

 

By dating, you get to experience what it's like to be in a relationship, have sex, and most importantly, you get to become a lot more comfortable around women and learn what they're like since you'll be around your girlfriend a lot. Since fat girls tend to be less picky and are often more friendly since they are overlooked by most men, they are much more likely to consider dating you if you give them the time and day.

 

 

You need experience with interacting with women in order to attract them (especially if you're considered not very attractive) and by dating a girl who's not necessarily that physically attractive, you get some experience with simply being around women and talking to them and this can be used someday to may date a girl who's more physically attractive. Sometimes you have to start low before you can build up into something better.

 

 

Your first relationship you get into probably wont be the girl you marry anyways and most likely not going to last for several years. That's why it's important to experiment around and date several people and see what you like and don't like. But it's good to get your foot in the door, and dating someone you're not necessarily physically attracted to can be a good way to do it. And who knows, you might actually really like this girl well enough that it could turn into something more. Also by dating, you will fulfill the loneliness void that often comes with being single, especially if you have been single your whole life.

 

 

Plus if you date a girl who's fat but not too fat, they often have a nice asss because it's trick and curvy. If you ever watch porn, there's some fat but curvy girls with nice bodies and especially a big fat asss.

 

[] I really don't think it's a bad idea to lower your standards a bit if you're starting out in the dating scene and you know you're not going to be attracting these really hot chicks anyways. Sometimes you have to start low and get some experience before you can date better.

 

 

i had a nervous twitch in my eye reading this ....

 

Thank god for Fat chicks... at least they are good for something i guess !!! being used for sexual pleasures and a boost for some men's egos .... ah , what a world we live in ... and some wonder why they are single ????

 

We should build a Wall around Fat and ugly People ... Let's make the world pretty and skinny again

 

Woahhh , i am holding back a lot of words here

 

No wonder there are so many depressed people ...seriously

[PrettyEmily77]

Carefully, OP. What if it's going to be you a fat chick exchanges for a better upgrade, once she realizes you're as shallow as a puddle on the sun?

 

Or any chick, for that matter.

 

I can't think of many chicks falling for that way of thinking, whatever their BMI...

[elaine567]

People tend to pair off with people who are like themselves. We all find our level.

 

However fat does not equal unattractive, fat does not equal poor social skills, fat does not equal lack of personality, fat does not equal desperation.

 

So any desperate man, who is unattractive to women, has poor social skills and lacks an engaging personality is going to be no more attractive to "fat chicks", than he will be to the "hot chicks" he really wants...

[Buddhist]

I was a fat [well slightly overweight really] chick once. And during that period I was in a long term relationship with a pretty decent guy who treated me well. I would never have gone for some low-level chump even with my 2 sizes larger arse and lower self esteem. I wasn't desperate, wasn't even single.

 

Of course now I've morphed into hot chick [bMI] territory I'm single a lot more. Apparently everyone is assuming I'm shagging models or something.

Edited June 26, 2016 by Buddhist

[Imajerk17]

What the...

 

This thread is bizarre. Only here are the guys who never kissed a girl trying to be giving so much dating and relationship advice.

 

I hate to break it to you OP, but many many men find women w curvier and thicker builds physically attractive. They always have--*long* before Ashley Graham became famous. These women are not going to swoon for you just because you deigned to ask them out.

 

 

And yes i'm being serious.

 

 

I know this thread will possibility offend some people, but please hear me out and the reason why I think this is potentially a good idea.

 

 

So let's just say you're a shy guy who's not the most attractive person in the world and because of your shyness around women, you've never had a girlfriend before. I think it would be a good idea for you to consider dating a girl who's overweight (or not the most attractive) at least to start out so you can get some experience with dating and here's why.

 

By dating, you get to experience what it's like to be in a relationship, have sex, and most importantly, you get to become a lot more comfortable around women and learn what they're like since you'll be around your girlfriend a lot. Since fat girls tend to be less picky and are often more friendly since they are overlooked by most men, they are much more likely to consider dating you if you give them the time and day.

 

 

You need experience with interacting with women in order to attract them (especially if you're considered not very attractive) and by dating a girl who's not necessarily that physically attractive, you get some experience with simply being around women and talking to them and this can be used someday to may date a girl who's more physically attractive. Sometimes you have to start low before you can build up into something better.

 

 

Your first relationship you get into probably wont be the girl you marry anyways and most likely not going to last for several years. That's why it's important to experiment around and date several people and see what you like and don't like. But it's good to get your foot in the door, and dating someone you're not necessarily physically attracted to can be a good way to do it. And who knows, you might actually really like this girl well enough that it could turn into something more. Also by dating, you will fulfill the loneliness void that often comes with being single, especially if you have been single your whole life.

 

 

Plus if you date a girl who's fat but not too fat, they often have a nice asss because it's trick and curvy. If you ever watch porn, there's some fat but curvy girls with nice bodies and especially a big fat asss.

 

[] I really don't think it's a bad idea to lower your standards a bit if you're starting out in the dating scene and you know you're not going to be attracting these really hot chicks anyways. Sometimes you have to start low and get some experience before you can date better.

Edited June 26, 2016 by Imajerk17

[William]

After review, thread reopened with the reminder that disparaging remarks based on looks or body type definitely lack civility and respect and will be sanctioned.

 

I edited on the lenient side to try and preserve the topic, but liberal use of the "ALERT" button is strongly encouraged on this thread ~T

Edited June 26, 2016 by William

[King Me]

I really don't think it's a bad idea to lower your standards a bit if you're starting out in the dating scene and you know you're not going to be attracting these really hot chicks anyways. Sometimes you have to start low and get some experience before you can date better.

Don't forget that she'll need to be willing to lower her own standards an awful lot to go out with said unattractive, desperate man ... just because she's fat doesn't guarantee that she will want to "start low" herself!

[Dark Horse]

No offense, OP, but I just don't find fat women attractive. Part of that is because how they look and the other part is the habits that led to them being that way.

 

While my body shape is not great overall, it is better than most overweight women and I am, at the least, grateful for that. I do hope that I can find a woman that is at least like me in body shape and hope that we can be physically attracted to each other.

 

So, no deal. I may not approach women hardly at all but I do have my deal breakers and limits and I refuse to cross them just for some "practice" or "sexual experience". I would sooner stay single and a virgin for the rest of my life instead before dating any woman that I am repulsed by, physically or mentally.

 

Yeah same...

 

Why would you want to date a girl whom you're physically repulsed by and you two don't even have compatible interests?

 

 

 

Guys on second thought, screw dating fat girls! I'm not going to date anybody im physically attracted to so I wont hurt their feelings or lead them on. I don't want to lead anybody on, if the first date goes bad then I will just say it's not working out.

 

 

Thanks guys

 

 

Dark Horse out

Edited June 26, 2016 by Dark Horse

[Dark Horse]

 

Carefully, OP. What if it's going to be you a fat chick exchanges for a better upgrade, once she realizes you're as shallow as a puddle on the sun?

 

 

Well as long as she doesn't cheat on me or gets pregnant with my baby, I ain't complaining. If this were the case, we'd both be using each other for our own personal gains without the other knowing.

 

We both benefit from it because we're both dating to get experience and since both of us feel like we're "settling" and neither of us have that strong of feelings for the other, if we were to break up then maybe it woudn't hurt as bad for neither of us. I mean as long as she isn't cheating, if that were the case I would feel bad. We both see each other as a means to an end.

 

 

 

 

Although a FWB might be better because you two arne't exclusive. Or simply being friends because by being friends, you open up your network and oftentimes friends meet through other friends so she could introduce me to an even more attractive friend. That's the thing, if you can become friends with a girl who has a big network of other girls she knows, maybe she can help you out and set you up.

 

Choose your friends wisely.

 

 

The sooner I learn to overcome my irrational fears of rejection, i'm going to become a lot better with women.

 

 

I think these things for a reason you know.

Edited June 26, 2016 by Dark Horse

[JuneJulySeptember]

There's not too many morbidly obese women around.

 

If you're talking about like 5'3", 180 lbs, a woman like that would have no problem getting a bunch of men.

 

I realize this thread is more of a goof, but from my experience it does not work. Not that I tried it specifically, but looks isn't that important to me, so I've asked out a WIDE range of women. The women I have been able to get rest on the higher end of that range.

 

If less 'studly' guys are looking for an easier solution to get a gal, I would suggest going for women more on the fringe of society. Foreign women, women with a rough upbringing, loners, women without that many female friends. That has been a common denominator of women I have been able to get. And you might even be able to get one that's really cute and really nice.

 

Another common denominator is that the women I date have had bad father figures. With ALL of the women I've dated, their fathers are either not in their lives or are marginally so, and are essentially deadbeats.

 

Women like that tend to stay away from the prototypical male types that most women swoon for. But I also have a very strong sense of loyalty. I don't know about you, OP. Lol.

[Eternal Sunshine]

Good luck with getting a FWB OP.

 

Women's looks standards for a FWB are often much higher than for a bf. The reality is that any woman can have a male model FWB....so yeah, good luck with that.

[JuneJulySeptember]

Good luck with getting a FWB OP.

 

Women's looks standards for a FWB are often much higher than for a bf. The reality is that any woman can have a male model FWB....so yeah, good luck with that.

 

This is actually true. I don't know if any woman can have a male model, but average looking women can have male models for sure. I have female friends who told me their Tinder experiences.

[lana-banana]

The specifics are detracting from the premise: namely, that vulnerable people with low self-esteem should mutually use each other to feel better about themselves. This is insanity. It's such a bad idea that it doesn't even merit one of the thousand potential counterarguments but I'll do it anyway. OP, you don't learn healthy relationship behaviors by practicing bad ones. If your only experience is shallow and manipulative, you're probably going to be just as shallow and manipulative when you meet someone you really do love, and I guarantee it won't end well for you.

 

Don't waste time on trying to get "experience" for its own sake. This is real life, not an RPG where you can't level up until you've spent a while grinding. My advice is to love yourself, consider yourself worthy of love, and seek out relationships with people whose love you want to share.

[BlueIris]

Stunning.

 

How did we get to the point in this society that it’s fine to assess people by their body shape but terribly offensive to asses people by their intelligence?

 

It’s absolutely taboo to say, “Hey, if the guy of your dreams won’t date you, date a dumb guy. Practice on the dumb guys.” I can just see the feathers ruffle.

 

But somehow it’s become socially acceptable to substitute the word “fat” for “dumb” and assume that people of a certain body type are so desperate that they'll date anybody so long as they aren't fat, cuz that's all that matters to anybody.

[xxoo]

The sooner I learn to overcome my irrational fears of rejection, i'm going to become a lot better with women. .

 

Is this what this thread is about? Practicing where you perceive less chance of rejection? (not necessarily true, btw)

 

Why not practice with women you are attracted to, regardless of size (sheesh), and mitigate chance of rejection in other ways? For example, join a club or organization where you will interact with normal, attractive women on a regular basis, get to know them, be able to flirt in a safe environment, etc. Even a pt job at a supermarket would work; a couple young men working at my supermarket flirt with me every time I come in! (alas, I'm married )

[ChocolateRain]

 

If less 'studly' guys are looking for an easier solution to get a gal, I would suggest going for women more on the fringe of society. Foreign women, women with a rough upbringing, loners, women without that many female friends. That has been a common denominator of women I have been able to get. And you might even be able to get one that's really cute and really nice.

 

 

This just rubs me the wrong way ....

 

Why dont some of these guys get ''Love Dolls '' ???

 

Guaranteed no Fat , they look stunning all the time , they will never talk back . Never get pregnant . ( Zero Butt Hair sorry had to mention this from another thread lol ) i mean the possibilities are just endless with a ''Love Doll '' ....

 

We are born as humans and not as objects to be used !!!!!!!

 

Drops the Mic and leaves

[JuneJulySeptember]

This just rubs me the wrong way ....

 

Why dont some of these guys get ''Love Dolls '' ???

 

Guaranteed no Fat , they look stunning all the time , they will never talk back . Never get pregnant . ( Zero Butt Hair sorry had to mention this from another thread lol ) i mean the possibilities are just endless with a ''Love Doll '' ....

 

We are born as humans and not as objects to be used !!!!!!!

 

Drops the Mic and leaves

 

I have no idea how you got that from my post...

 

But I'm sure I could go through your posts and find something that offends me as well.

 

Rest assured, I don't treat women as 'objects', and I don't see those things as negatives, whatsoever. I'm a loner myself and I think women with a lot of female friends is a negative.

 

I was just saying that women with those characteristics (socially fringe) are more likely to go out with guys who are not prototypically perfect (like myself).

 

Thank you...

Edited June 26, 2016 by JuneJulySeptember

[Dark Horse]

Well I think JuneJulySeptember is right.

 

You should go for girls whom are less likely to reject you and you stand a better chance with.

 

Because let's face it, you're probably not going to stand a chance with a bunch of sorority girls if you're not a super buff frat boy and dislikes partying and getting wasted.

[ChocolateRain]

I have no idea how you got that from my post...

 

But I'm sure I could go through your posts and find something that offends me as well.

 

Rest assured, I don't treat women as 'objects', and I don't see those things as negatives, whatsoever. I'm a loner myself.

 

if i have said something in my previous posts that offended you in any way than name it . i am woman enough to apologize if i was inappropriate in any way ...