Wifey1992 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 OK, SO IM TOTALLY NOT FOR SENDING DIRTY PICS. Its something I've always been against because I've always been afraid of them getting out or people seeing them who shouldn't. Well Hubby of 5 years started begging for some a couple weeks ago. Saying please, come on, and hurry! So finally I gave in and sent 2. Tonight he got a little tipsy and let it slip that his friend wanted to trade naked pictures of his wife with him. I asked him what he said and he said, "ok lol" but told me he actually didn't. Then started acting kind of weird like maybe he shouldn't have told me that after I asked him about the pictures I sent him. Then he threw it in that this guy wanted him to hurry up and send him a picture before 5. My husband was hounding me around 3:30 for naked pictures telling me to "hurry"... Then when I asked him what time he asked for these pictures he said he didn't remember and started acting aggitated. Am I overreacting or does it sound like he swapped pictures with him? He said this guy told him he had any picture he wanted and to get some dirty pics of me and he would send him any pic he wanted. I'm so upset right now because I feel like he really did swap pictures. I was stupid to send them, but I feel... Disgusted and sick to my stomach over this. Am I overreacting? Link to post Share on other sites
ShatteredLady Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 What? Really? OMG!! You're saying that your husband so desperately wanted sexual, naked pictures of this OTHER WOMAN that he was willing (knowing your feelings. Knowing your FEARS!) to manipulate you into providing the 'currency' he needed to buy one? AND you're asking if you're over-reacting!! That's absolutely disgusting. That's wrong, cruel & offensive on so many levels that my head is spinning. I'm so sorry for you. I'm gobbled smacked! I don't know what to say. Such disrespect. AND swapping photos of their wives?? Giving other men masterbatory images of their wives? Is it being without your consent part of the turn-on? Are they warming-up to a wife swap or just showing off? I don't know how to advise you. I'd have trouble breathing the same air as him let alone the same bed! I'm so sorry. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wifey1992 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 Aghhh... He's in bed. I'm on the couch. After that conversation i left the roon. He denies and denies, but I have this awful feeling that that's exactly what he did. I'm so mad. Upset. Idk... Idk how to even get him to tell me the truth. Like trick him into the truth to know for sure. I just didn't know if I was overreacting because I don't know FOR SURE (even though I could bet everything I had that I'm right) Link to post Share on other sites
Gemma1 Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Just look at your phone bill and see if the guy was texting him right before 3:30. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wifey1992 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 I wish it were that easy! He has a go phone where as I share a plan with my brother. :/ so there's no phone bill to look through... Link to post Share on other sites
yepsurething Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 I wish it were that easy! He has a go phone where as I share a plan with my brother. :/ so there's no phone bill to look through... do you have access to his phone? you can look at his texts sent. I recently put a trace program on my husbands phone. it lets me see if pics were sent and what texts he's deleted. Link to post Share on other sites
standtall Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Wow,,,IMHO he traded, but it will be very difficult to prove. Wow what a POS move that was. Real men, would never pressure their wives to do anything that would compromise her sense of right and wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wifey1992 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 do you have access to his phone? you can look at his texts sent. I recently put a trace program on my husbands phone. it lets me see if pics were sent and what texts he's deleted. I looked last night while he was asleep. He deletes EVERYTHING every single day though including call history, texts, internet browsing, etc. So there's nothing I found. Although when he got up for work this morning he knew I was mad. And so he got real defensive really quick and instead of asking why I was mad, stomped out of the house. Then, he calls me every day. And by 10 am he's usually called me twice. Its almost 11 and not one phone call. So he's avoiding me too. This isnt the first time we've had a dumb argument at 4 am. The baby keeps me up, I'm cranky, he wants to know what's wrong with me, etc and then calls me around 8:30 to see if I'm in a better mood yet. But nothing today. Not a text, phone call, nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wifey1992 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Share Posted June 27, 2016 Wow,,,IMHO he traded, but it will be very difficult to prove. Wow what a POS move that was. Real men, would never pressure their wives to do anything that would compromise her sense of right and wrong. Idk what I'm more upset about. The fact that he didn't care that another man wanted to see his naked wife (and he showed him) or the fact that he only wanted the pictures to send to him because the guy said, "get her to send you some and send them to me! I'll send you any one you want! I've got any picture you can think of!" (Husband said that's what the guy said last night before nervously trying to change the subject) Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Idk what I'm more upset about. The fact that he didn't care that another man wanted to see his naked wife (and he showed him) or the fact that he only wanted the pictures to send to him because the guy said, "get her to send you some and send them to me! I'd be more upset about this: He deletes EVERYTHING every single day though including call history, texts, internet browsing, etc. I'd guess the current issue is but one small fish in a very big ocean... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
lovey34 Posted June 30, 2016 Share Posted June 30, 2016 interesting, whats the name? do you have access to his phone? you can look at his texts sent. I recently put a trace program on my husbands phone. it lets me see if pics were sent and what texts he's deleted. Link to post Share on other sites
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