Toodaloo Posted June 29, 2016 Share Posted June 29, 2016 I nearly crashed my car yesterday... I was following a cyclist with the most amazing buttocks and I was having a good old look... Old being the operative word. Those fabulous buttocks belonged to a man who was at least 70 if not older... If a man has "stopped" looking after himself then chances are he didn't before... either that or needs a kick up the bottom to do so. I am also crushing on a man who is 53 that I have dance lessons with sometimes... Damn that man can move and damn I get REALLY perverted thoughts run through my head when I see him! I don't think you can put an age on it... Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 29, 2016 Share Posted June 29, 2016 This could be a whole new post altogether. LOL, But I have noticed this with men over 50 or even mid 40s. They just seem to lack the energy anymore to do so. I was talking to a man, but he was in his late 30s, and he has a kid. Never married, but told me "marriage is a pain in the arse" and he's unattached now. Hasn't even been dating for a 1 1/2 since breaking up with his g/f and even THAT relationship was draining to him. Some women seem to take a lot out of a man if they come across a toxic personality Not you Michelle, I enjoy a wide, doe-eyed lovely like yourself. And by the time they get around to you, unfortunately, they are all world weary. lol I can totally understand how some people may find dating draining. I've certainly felt this way many times, and still do which is why I go in spits and spurts. Perhaps I'm different than most men/women my age in that I've done my work and have unpacked my baggage and CHOOSE to see the world and people from a glass half full perspective. Most people dating today do not, or at least not for long. The older the men are, the more common this kind of negative attitude appears to be. And when you have a bad attitude you just don't put in as much effort emotionally or physically. THAT is a HUGE off for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Cablebandit Posted June 29, 2016 Share Posted June 29, 2016 testosterone drop is a real thing Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 29, 2016 Share Posted June 29, 2016 testosterone drop is a real thing Yeah, definitely. Politics and some time at the target range seem to pick it right back up Another hindrance to care is, in my generation anyway, the propensity shrug off physical or psychological pain or malaise and soldier on without complaint. Avoiding necessary or prudent medical or psychological care can erode the overall package too. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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