DCP11OC Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Guys. I need some help. Have I just experienced my first crush? For information I am 25 years old, male and very shy. I feel sick. I feel confused. I don't know what's going on. The only way I can describe it is that I got this feeling that I like someone but there is no rational reason why to explain why -- I don't know her. I requested to be trained at another location the other day specifically for self-improvement reasons to see if I could handle different type of jobs and as I was sitting at my desk I can't remember how it happened but I noticed that myself and this girl were looking at each other quite a lot. This happened throughout the day. Unfortunately I am not very confident and have never experienced anything like this so didn't do anything about it (fear?). A few days later when I was at the same location for my second day training I noticed her again and I thought I would try something new today (I am trying to expand my comfort zone). I noticed again we were looking at each other and perhaps interestingly she walked over to near where I was and I smiled...in fact I smiled so much it made me laugh a little bit because I was honestly pleased to see that she was there again. So after mentally preparing something to say for about 2 hours whilst at work I finally went up to her and - my mind went blank - could not say anything. Luckily she said something like 'you work over there right, is it your first day here then?' and that got me talking a bit. Unfortunately I am not set to work there - only to cover in case of illness/holidays but I am still intrigued by this recent interaction. Even more so I can't get it or her out of my mind. I did go to that workplace to "see my colleague about something" but it was merely an excuse just to see if she was working on that day and she was. We talked very briefly then. So now I am so confused, I really don't know what to do. I was going to go over again today but I am full of self-doubt I wouldn't know what to say and do. I think I am over-analyzing this too much it is stressing me out so I am posting on the internet for some feedback !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Horse Posted June 27, 2016 Share Posted June 27, 2016 Tell me sir, do you get a tingle in your pants that makes you want to dance whenever you talk to her face to face? Happens to me all the time... Link to post Share on other sites
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