theendiscoming Posted July 1, 2016 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Idea from several materials said: approach one everyday So if a man approach to woman everyday and after 30 days still doing this does it mean the man always got rejected over 30 times? There is countless materials, books that talking about how a male approach to woman etc. Are these for men who have never had girlfriend in life or for unfaithful men who want many breaks and new girlfriends? Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted July 1, 2016 Share Posted July 1, 2016 You ever notice that it's a lot easier to find available men than it is women? Regardless of whatever reason this exists, it exists. You don't think that is going to impact the strategies single men use to find/meet women? What you are talking about is the 'shotgun' approach. 'If you talk to enough women, then one is bound to be interested...' The same advise has been used with applicants looking for work. I don't think most women have dealt with a dating scene where the odds are stacked against them and probably wouldn't know how to handle an uphill battle to find a romantic partner. I think that this strategy generally applies more to the late teen/early-to-mid twenties age group guys, though. I remember being that age and not getting dates because once I hit 20-22, my competition started being older more established guys with more money to spend on dates, more maturity, they knew better how to say the things young women wanted to hear etc. etc. I mean I still found someone I ended up marrying, and now that I may be looking at dating again in my mid-thirties, I feel like I have WAY more of the things needed to attract a woman leaning my way. Does that make sense? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Bantosm Posted July 2, 2016 Share Posted July 2, 2016 So if a man approach to woman everyday and after 30 days still doing this does it mean the man always got rejected over 30 times?Only if the goal for approaching was solely for picking up women then that would be true. Link to post Share on other sites
Bantosm Posted July 2, 2016 Share Posted July 2, 2016 You ever notice that it's a lot easier to find available men than it is women? That's not true. There are single women everywhere: Currently, 53% of women over 18 are in the singles column. Single women: Why they're on the rise (Opinion) - CNN.com I thought the percentage of single women would be even higher than what the links states. I think the reason the myth seems to persist because women often will say they are seeing someone when in fact they are single but not interested. That's why is important to approach not for picking up but just to talk. I've been doing that lately and surprised to find how many women are actually single. Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted July 2, 2016 Share Posted July 2, 2016 That's not true. There are single women everywhere: I thought the percentage of single women would be even higher than what the links states. I think the reason the myth seems to persist because women often will say they are seeing someone when in fact they are single but not interested. That's why is important to approach not for picking up but just to talk. I've been doing that lately and surprised to find how many women are actually single. Keyword "available " which means without a husband or boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Bantosm Posted July 2, 2016 Share Posted July 2, 2016 Keyword "available " which means without a husband or boyfriend. How is that any different than if a female is single? Unless you're suggesting a female can have a husband or boyfriend and still be single. I'm not sure what your point your trying to make. Link to post Share on other sites
Recon33 Posted July 3, 2016 Share Posted July 3, 2016 That article is saying that 53% of women aren't married. I'm sure many of that percentage still have boyfriends and relationships. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 That's not true. There are single women everywhere: I thought the percentage of single women would be even higher than what the links states. I think the reason the myth seems to persist because women often will say they are seeing someone when in fact they are single but not interested. That's why is important to approach not for picking up but just to talk. I've been doing that lately and surprised to find how many women are actually single. It is true more so because the keyword is "find". Al there may be an equal number of single women to men, but there is a key difference in the access available to find them at. Women, in general don't need to look far to find a single man, and often simply logging into a dating site will generate many options for them. This is why there are 'ladies nights' at bars/clubs and dating profiles are normally free for women. Either way, the op was questioning the shotgun approach. Hopefully the rest of my input was helpful. Even if you disagree with that part. Link to post Share on other sites
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