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lolablue17
I found out by chance that he recently bought a roundtrip ticket to a woman from Russia to visit him at the end of the month, he doesn't know I know and I am unsure on what to do next. I feel betrayed again but somehow I didn't trusted him that much and I am not planning to tell him I know.

 

My first impression was that his "crime" was minor, and you can give him a second chance. But that thing with the woman from russia? I don't know, it all looks very odd. How do you know about it anyway? He is single now and has the right to date other women as much as he wants. You didn't say yes to him yet...

 

But What kind of a man dates temporary women from russia like that?

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Tinkerbelll
My first impression was that his "crime" was minor, and you can give him a second chance. But that thing with the woman from russia? I don't know, it all looks very odd. How do you know about it anyway? He is single now and has the right to date other women as much as he wants. You didn't say yes to him yet...

 

But What kind of a man dates temporary women from russia like that?

 

You are right,he has every right to do as he wish. Saw the girl and I must admit she's very pretty. The first woman was from Russia as well.

This situation makes ma uncomfortable, as I am aware I know 1% of what is going on. Even in case of a reconciliation, I seriously doubt he will tell me about this trip so I can see more and more lies coming.

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You are right,he has every right to do as he wish. Saw the girl and I must admit she's very pretty. The first woman was from Russia as well.

This situation makes ma uncomfortable, as I am aware I know 1% of what is going on. Even in case of a reconciliation, I seriously doubt he will tell me about this trip so I can see more and more lies coming.

 

You can see the tsunami coming into shore but you refuse to run to higher ground and safety.

You appear to have a death wish here.

What are you waiting for?

The water is already lapping around your feet...

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You can see the tsunami coming into shore but you refuse to run to higher ground and safety.

You appear to have a death wish here.

What are you waiting for?

The water is already lapping around your feet...

 

I want to see how far he can go with this.

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Tinkerbelll

So tonight we had an argument about work related issues, I was though but to the point, while he indulged in judging me saying I was arrogant and selfish, among other things.

He concluded saying that he wasn't willing to see me again anymore and that we would cancel everything since he didn't like the Tinkerbelll he has discovered on some occasions and that maybe it was HIS LUCK

that I discovered he had lied to me :confused:

I didn't reply back saying only that I agreed with him (in not coming).

I really didn't expect him to turn so nasty! Only yesterday he was begging for a second chance blatering that I knew how much he loved me etc.. :confused:

Well, I just felt the need to update everybody about my situation.

I was really hurt at the beginning by his words, now I feel lees and less involved in this drama.

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