drgnflybethany Posted June 28, 2005 Share Posted June 28, 2005 As a matter of question - and this goes mainly to the men on the forum, but please, women feel free to tell me your feelings: Do men truly seek to help a woman without having an ulterior motive? In other words, if you do something for a woman/girl - even though you say you don't want anything in return - do you honestly not want anything in return? Link to post Share on other sites
ImaManDammit Posted June 28, 2005 Share Posted June 28, 2005 That question is very subjective. Its like asking are all car salesmen underhanded? Speaking for myself I am genuine, but a friend of mine is not. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted June 28, 2005 Share Posted June 28, 2005 Well I'm not a Guy BUT I can say I've a few Male Friends that have helped me out with different things and I never felt they wanted something more.. again as the other poster has said I suppose it is subjective to the person in question... But yeah.. I have some great Male Friends that have helped me out because we are friends and didn't expect "Pay back" Link to post Share on other sites
ggallin13 Posted June 28, 2005 Share Posted June 28, 2005 Depends. Most men only do things for women in hopes that they'll see how helpful/cool/funny/understanding they are and sleep with them. If you don't, though, most men don't hold it against you, either. I have helped women and didn't expect any 'payback" but I wouldn't have turned it down if it was offered. That's about as chivalrous as I've ever been... Link to post Share on other sites
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