shaunydspare Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 So, my ex and I recently went out and had lunch together. We've been apart for 4 years so a lot has changed and mostly for the better on both ends. The chemistry hasn't gone away at all. I know I definitely still love her, enough that i know in my mind i would marry her at this point. The break up was all my fault and she's been with the same guy since after me since. After lunch we've been talking non stop and have plans to grab dinner on wednesday and I just recently bought a house so im gonna go show her the property. am i wrong for thinking this could be leading somewhere again? from the sounds of it nothing sounds awful with her current life. but she sounds bored. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shaunydspare Posted July 4, 2016 Author Share Posted July 4, 2016 also, i will note our conversations have going welllll into the night like past midnight. makes you wonder Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 she's been with the same guy since after me since. Is she still with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author shaunydspare Posted July 4, 2016 Author Share Posted July 4, 2016 yes she is currently seeing him. they do live together with 2 other roommates as well. Link to post Share on other sites
LostOnes05 Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 Well she is being a bit disrespectful of her current relationship, don't you think? Lunch and dinner with an ex? I'd have serious problems with that if I was her current boyfriend. You should be concerned as well. If she willingly steps on someone she is with now for someone she was with 4 years ago, she'll do it to you too when she gets as you say "bored". Sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie. It's not like there aren't other women in the world man. Don't disrespect another man because you didn't get it right the first time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
gaig Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 "Lot has changed mostly for the better" equals she's talking to you constantly while she is in a 4 year relationship with someone else? Mate, rethink about this again and again. Is this the kind of second chance you want? When she is bored? She wasn't brave enough the first time, she is still not brave now I won't even talk about her bf, this guy is already burnt.. Link to post Share on other sites
kidm Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 what's so promising about a girl cheating on her significant other with you? Let me guess- it's different- you're special and you two have off the charts chemistry. She has proven herself to be dishonest and you think she's wife material? Ok then. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 am i wrong for thinking this could be leading somewhere again? yes she is currently seeing him. they do live together with 2 other roommates as well. Then from the evidence at hand, even if she is interested in a second chance with you, then she is a big fat cheater and you should not be interested in a second chance with her. Rule number 1 of dating. Do not date women who have boyfriends. Rule number 2 of dating. DO NOT DATE WOMEN WHO HAVE BOYFRIENDS. Link to post Share on other sites
Orion39 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 You could talk to her about your feelings, but I would not recommend continued get togethers unless the both of you agree to date one another. As she is in a relationship you don't want to be that guy that she cheats on her current boyfriend with or something to happen that may be regretted at a later time. Link to post Share on other sites
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