Jump to content

Being obsessed over ex gf


Recommended Posts

I still have some "feelings" to my ex girlfriend who dumped me almost 2 years ago. I realized this today when I saw her old post on my fb wall (I have her blocked, I don't know why facebook displayed this).

 

She was my first girlfriend, the relationship was pretty bad and lasted about a year.

 

I mean, I still feel sad when I think about her, or angry, curious, anxious, or nostalic. Probably all of those a bit. I don't know why - I am writing this now because I wanted to unblock her and check her profile, and caught myself fighting against it.

 

I mean, come on, I am 100% sure our breakup was the best thing that happened in my life - my life has became much more better (and interesting) since then.

 

Is this normal? What should I do about it?

  • Like 1
Link to post
Share on other sites

It takes as long as it takes to get over someone.

 

Stay away from any and all reminders of her.

 

 

*No direct contact.

*No sending or receiving of messages.

*Block any means she might use to contact you.

*No replies to anything that gets through your blocks.

*No indirect contact through third parties.

*De-friend or delete from all social media.

*No monitoring of her on social media.

*No 'little birds' feeding you news.

*Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.

 

 

Take care.

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
×
×
  • Create New...