I miss her so much :( i want her to see that i have changed

[Jinkhy]

My ex gf and i were together for more than 7 months, we were so happy together for the first 4 months then it started to fade... We had lots of fights and i was insecure about her and got jealous alot, but ill start the story here, we met at school we had known each other for 5 years but rarely talked up untill a friend of mine invited me to a party that she attended, i didnt really take interest in her because at the time i was with a gf but as we spoke more i felt a connection, i felt like she was my soul mate, and i didnt feel the same with my gf i was with because i could only see her once every 2 weeks whilst my ex i could see quite often, so one day i asked her if she wanted to hangout and she smiled and said yeah, we got really connected, i told my gf at the time i didnt feel the same about her but i didnt bring up this girl to her, she was beautiful, we didnt date untill about 2 months later but the thing is i was her first kiss!! I was her first boyfriend!!! And i took her virginity, i met her family, they loved me and i loved them, and i slept over her house alot, sex was good, she had her license but i didnt so it was unfair that she drove around alot, but we were head over heels for each other, but as we met these new people it changed, they were druggies and i was not comfortable at the time, this one guy in the group he had a liking of my gf and i didnt like it at all but she said dont worry about it we are just friends, anyway more fights happened i always checked up on her around this guy and it was a stupid thing to do because that pissed her off, then one day she didnt feel happy, and didnt wanna be in a relationship anymore, but 2 days after we break up she is already flirting with this guy and likes him?!!! I was so betrayed she even promised me nothing would happen between them and stuff has happened, my friends are saying its not gonna last long and I believe that too because he does druggs alot and pisses her off, but she said she still cares about me, still has photos of us on her phone, and still wears my jumper, she one day had her and I together on her phone lockscreen and wallpaper, i really love her so much and i dont wanna give up on her, she still talks to me every now and then and invites me out and stuff, what should i do? I really want her to know im a better person and i want her to give me another chance someone please help me

[PegNosePete]

So she left you for another guy. A druggie who treats her badly.

 

And you want her back?

 

What makes you think she won't dump you again for the next druggie that comes along?

 

Taking someone back after they dump you for someone else is always a bad idea.

[ZayKayWill]

Why did she leave you? Are you saying you think it was your fault? I feel like that's the important question here. I wouldn't take anyone back who 2 days after break up gets with some druggy loser. If you really do want her back I'm assuming you feel like you messed up somewhere somehow.

Edited July 10, 2016 by ZayKayWill

[smudge21]

Your blaming yourself for the choices she makes in her life? Why is that?

[Jinkhy]

Why did she leave you? Are you saying you think it was your fault? I feel like that's the important question here. I wouldn't take anyone back who 2 days after break up gets with some druggy loser. If you really do want her back I'm assuming you feel like you messed up somewhere somehow.

 

Well it was going but she always said i was insecure and we spent too much time together, but what hurt the most was that she left me for someone else who dosnt show any attention to her and to this day she still likes him..... Idk if i should give up or keep trying? I was best friends with her best friends before we dated and now we alll still hangout and its hard not to think about her... But i know she did leave me for someone.... And they arnt even dating