Poppy47 Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. 30 Link to post Share on other sites
Adoraxx Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Great job, Poppy!!! I'm so proud of you, I know it was hard to do but you did the right thing!! Hugs!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poppy47 Posted July 7, 2016 Author Share Posted July 7, 2016 The thought of my family discovering my secret was too much. I might tell them later. Not sure yet. It was important to get rid of all the written evidence. Time later to decide about a confession to my kids. Poppy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria_Smellons Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Nice work Poppy x Link to post Share on other sites
NewLeaf512 Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Poppy you're my hero xx NL Link to post Share on other sites
lilacwine Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. Wow, I'm so glad to hear this. I'm sure you'd feel very empowered afterwards. I think another added benefit is that there won't be more triggers for you in case you miss him, go through his old cards/letters and feel the urge to reach out. It's a winning decision, Poppy. Congratulations!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sabella Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 (((((Poppy!))))) I'm so happy for you! What a huge step you have just taken! Amazing, I bet you feel a little lighter now. You've inspired me, thank you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jenkins95 Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Poppy - this is inspirational stuff! Well done Link to post Share on other sites
pooldog Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Excellent!!! (((Hugs))) This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. Link to post Share on other sites
Oran Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. Poppy, I was so pleased for you when I read this. Well done. You did it in your own time, for the right reasons for you. Hoping you feel lighter and freer now. Oran x Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 (((Poppy47))) That is fantastic! I too hope it feels like a weight has been lifted. Good for you! Link to post Share on other sites
ZBA Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Poppy, your strength and resolve are always inspiring. So much respect for how you've healed and moved forward from something so enormous and life-changing. Thanks for setting such an example for those of us who are in completely different places from you... those of us in a more negative headspace. Your state of mind is refreshing and helpful. Hugs. Link to post Share on other sites
RedOlive Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 What a huge step. Very inspirational. Thank you for sharing this, Poppy, you are my role model. Link to post Share on other sites
13Hearts Posted July 7, 2016 Share Posted July 7, 2016 Way to go Poppy. Must be something in the air because I deleted xMM from speed dial on my work phone today. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rumblefish12 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. You, Poppy, are a rock star! An inspiration! Thank you for sharing this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Poppy47 Posted July 8, 2016 Author Share Posted July 8, 2016 You, Poppy, are a rock star! An inspiration! Thank you for sharing this. I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. It wasn't hard when I considered how much it would hurt my family if they found the stash of mementos. Poppy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rumblefish12 Posted July 8, 2016 Share Posted July 8, 2016 I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. Younger than Mick Jagger and thank you. Hope you have a good weekend! Link to post Share on other sites
pooldog Posted July 9, 2016 Share Posted July 9, 2016 That was very smart to think this way! How are you doing now? I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. It wasn't hard when I considered how much it would hurt my family if they found the stash of mementos. Poppy. Link to post Share on other sites
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