Author JohnStrauman Posted July 11, 2016 Author Share Posted July 11, 2016 I'm kind of a 'hairist.' I like men with long, or a lot of (head) hair. However, I am 100% certain that if I already loved a guy and he went bald, I would still love him just the same, because I would love his spirit and soul. The core of his being. He would still be the same person to me, hair or no hair, and I would want to be close to him:). Is love possible in the absence of being physically attracted to that person? Link to post Share on other sites
metaversus Posted July 11, 2016 Share Posted July 11, 2016 Is love possible in the absence of being physically attracted to that person? I'm inclined to answer your question with a question. Would you be able to fall in love with someone you were not physically attracted to? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JohnStrauman Posted July 12, 2016 Author Share Posted July 12, 2016 I'm inclined to answer your question with a question. Would you be able to fall in love with someone you were not physically attracted to? I really doubt it...maybe it is possible but I do not see how. What about you? Link to post Share on other sites
getsmartie Posted July 12, 2016 Share Posted July 12, 2016 John, She isn't the right person for you. The right person will be attracted to you bald and all. In fact the right person will hardly notice that about you. My guy cousin is tall, dark and handsome. He married a girl that is honestly a 9 out of 10. A stunner! A few years after they were married, he started balding. He is now completely bald but you should see them together. Her arms are always around him. Your ex is obviously more shallow than you thought. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author JohnStrauman Posted July 12, 2016 Author Share Posted July 12, 2016 Be Jason Statham. http://media1.santabanta.com/full1/Global%20Celebrities(M)/Jason%20Statham/jason-statham-10a.jpg You don't have to do the cueball thing bc short cropped hair on a bald guy can look good. Bald pate and all. (Do add the facial hair tho.) I cannot grow a beard and I do not have those strong facial masculine features he has. Link to post Share on other sites
juniorrocha Posted July 12, 2016 Share Posted July 12, 2016 She threw away 4 years of a great relationship because you got bald? That woman needs to learn her lessons. And she will, now that she's out there. It's clear the relationship's strongest connection was the physical attraction you had on each other. Now that part of it is gone, you can see what it truly was like. That's sad and I feel for you OP. But you'll get through this. And like everyone already said: be confident. It works like a charm. I'm not a very attractive guy, but I do feel like I am, and you would be impressed at how many hot women flirts with me daily. hehe Link to post Share on other sites
Alamo657 Posted July 12, 2016 Share Posted July 12, 2016 1) if she left you because of looks, she didn't love you, she loved your looks 2) going bald is rough, you basically become another person. the only way out is to bulk up your body. What makes bald guys ugly is a big bald head on a tiny body. When you see good looking bald guys, their common point is that they go to the gym and it shows. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
NoLeafClover Posted July 12, 2016 Share Posted July 12, 2016 Im Guessing you have a full head of hair:p or head full of hair:D sorry if i insulted you or anybody Else i just dont give a damm about that ideal:cool: and even less now that you try to uphold it:( and i dont think your arguments are Holding water, one of Them beeing most men have hair..where i live most men or almost lack hair on the top:p but take what i wrote as a provokation to the ideal, not Desect Every little word and come with logical arguments thats why i made these faces:confused::cool: And by the Way you saying that tall, Dark is ideal, for me not, its mostly for the woman who thinks she Can impress others that Way (she like you believes it to be ideal) or because she herself is little and therefore attracted to what she hasnt Got herself or has a complex about it (because of people Who think/talk like what you wrote) i think:o Every size and colour has its advantages depending on the environment-) just like a White person is not fitting Well in africa and a tall person has advantages where there is a lot of food While a small person has the advantage when there is less food and so on. There is a Reason for the variation in the species and in Nature in general My fav was the losing hair "due to fertility part"..I'd say more due to being horney all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
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