lvgrly Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 What does your heart say? Forget everything else thats telling you to or not too, whats your heart saying? The heart never lies...remember that Link to post Share on other sites
Author airbus Posted July 8, 2005 Author Share Posted July 8, 2005 I dont know... I love her to bits, but shes just unfair towards me. I've got a counselling session in an hour, i'll talk to my counsellor about it and see if I can clear my head that way. Link to post Share on other sites
lvgrly Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 How did your session go hun?? Link to post Share on other sites
Cecelius Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Actually, your heart can tell you all kinds of things, and let you put up with ALL kinds of B.S. like this. Your heart might let you do all kinds of dopey things. It's your gut that matters. Your gut is telling you this is on its face disrespectful, AND that it just sets the stage for bad things. How much sympathy are you going to have for her when she confesses (if she does) that he tried to kiss her? Have sex with her? Listen to your gut: it's telling you that you are too much a prize to put up with this B.S. Link to post Share on other sites
Author airbus Posted July 8, 2005 Author Share Posted July 8, 2005 Hi, My session went okay! He told me I should talk to her, so I did but she went off on one and got all defensive. she says that I ask silly questions, but I dont think I really do. I'm always there for her whenever she needs me, I always text her, call her, I hardly talk to girls because she hates it, but she never makes any changes for me, and she always tells me how she wont. It makes me feel sad when I know I will make all the compromises and she won't make any. I don't see the fairness. Sometimes I wonder how this has ended up how it has, especially as she wanted to be with me for 4yrs. If it was the other way around, i'd be head over heels to get the person i've wanted for 4yrs. Cecelius, I know, you're right. I put up with so much B.S and I feel like i'm to blame all the time. I already told her, if she does anything with any guy, we're finished and I mean it. I used to give g/f's second chances, but I dont bother anymore, been taken advantage of too many times. Link to post Share on other sites
lvgrly Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by airbus I already told her, if she does anything with any guy, we're finished and I mean it. I used to give g/f's second chances, but I dont bother anymore, been taken advantage of too many times. But isn't that like giving her a second chance?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author airbus Posted July 8, 2005 Author Share Posted July 8, 2005 Nope, she knows I hate her clubbing as it is, but she says she dont do anything and always tells guys she has a b/f, and so they leave her alone, but she knows if she ever does do anything with any guy, i'm gone! Link to post Share on other sites
Cecelius Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by airbus Nope, she knows I hate her clubbing as it is, but she says she dont do anything and always tells guys she has a b/f, and so they leave her alone, but she knows if she ever does do anything with any guy, i'm gone! Because she will tell you as soon as it does happen, and since she's 5 hours away, you will hear about it from other sources... There's a difference between "clubbing" and going to a bar with friends. One is where dudes paw girls; one is where girls hang with friends without explicitly desiring male attention. Link to post Share on other sites
Author airbus Posted July 8, 2005 Author Share Posted July 8, 2005 I agree with you, and I put that to her ages ago! She said she goes to the clubs to have a drink and a dance, and said that when guys come up to her she says shes taken. I don't know, she was telling me all this stuff even before we got together, when she was with her last b/f, so maybe she is actually telling me the truth? Link to post Share on other sites
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