StillHurtin Posted July 29, 2005 Share Posted July 29, 2005 I am so very sorry that you are going through this. While I don't really agree w/ you being the one who told her. My H had an A and the last person I wanted to hear the truth from was the OW. I think her H would of eventually had to tell her, some how, she would of found out. Anyhow, what he is doing to you and his W is awful! He is an a**h***!!! He is lying to the both of you, making you look like a total fool to his W. He is lying about you making you look extremely bad and of course she is believing everything her looser of a H is telling her. I know you are hurting, but right now you need to put yourself and your unborn child first. Don't risk having a miscarriage if you really want this child. This MM is not worth your babies health or life. I know you are scared to be a single mom, any woman would be, but you can do it. I know a lot of single mom's and they are doing an awesome job raising their children. Sometimes it's best if the father isn't around if he is a looser and a jerk. Sometimes the father being around is worse on the child. You can do so much better. You can find a SG who will love you and your child, just give it some time. Take care of yourself and your unborn child. Right now that needs to be your first priority. Screw the MM, he doesn't deserve your tears and heartache. Don't let him be control of your life. I know that is easier said than done and I wish I could give you that strength and courage. Link to post Share on other sites
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