tomasjungle Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 Hello, so yesterday was one of the best nights of my life, I slept with a girl, I will not mention her name, but I love her is all I want to say about her. When we were sleeping together I asked if she wanted to go out with me and she said yes, so i said i love you, the next morning i went to football training with her, to watch her and then I went home, 10 minutes later I received a message saying "Look I think we should stay mates. I don't want to be in a relationship at the moment. We can still be really close off u want to but it will be for the best" that message left me heartbroken, then straightaway she said " Sorry I just don't think it's the best as ****s going on and that" , she wouldn't tell me what the "****s "going on was. I'm the most confused person in the world right now, I asked her if she did it to have fun she answered no, then I thought to myself to ask her if she is trying to see if she likes me more as friends and she said, "I do kinda", so that putted my hopes up but not much, and I started to remember her about last night by saying that it was the best night i ever had, i wish there was a time machine, and she replied saying that she liked it too. So I don't know what to do right now, im so confused, I love her, She liked me, But something happened, I cried for 3 hours straight, Im scared, im going to see her tomorrow and I don't know how to react, she did that last night for a reason, she even said yes to go out with me. There was a message i told her " Im guessing this, I think you only wanted a good time, and you only said yes because of the impulse" and she said it wasn't, I don't know what to do, please someone help me, I feel like **** Link to post Share on other sites
PinkPampies Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 Don't set yourself up for more heartbreak. Cut your loss and let this one go. Maybe you telling her you loved her so quickly put her off or maybe she's not sure how she feels. Either way; she is lukewarm and there's nothing worse than unrequited love. Let her go. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 OP, to clarify, are you dating this girl? I'm guessing not, since you said you asked her out while you were in bed and it seems you hadn't asked her out before. I think she was probably put off when you said you love her - if you're not in a relationship with her, that is way too much too soon. Don't bother meeting her tomorrow. She has already said she would prefer to just be friends, and I think you will wind up hurt if you see her. Link to post Share on other sites
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