Arda199 Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 I've been with this girl for 1.5 year we broke up 3 times, the last break-up was by me because i was sick of her arguing too much with me over the stupidest things ever and not respcting me enough because she ALWAYS mean to me...anyway Now every time i see her i feel like my heart just jumped to my throat and i don't understand why :/ i rarely think of her and I don't miss her AT ALL it's been been 5 or 6 months now (i'm not sure) it's annoying Link to post Share on other sites
Author Arda199 Posted July 18, 2016 Author Share Posted July 18, 2016 wow guys thanks for your help Link to post Share on other sites
SevenCity Posted July 18, 2016 Share Posted July 18, 2016 wow guys thanks for your help Settle down there son! It's a perfectly normal physical response. It also indicates that you may not be completely over her. People are funny like that. Our mind will process the good and often forget about the bad in ex'es. I know you don't want her back and realize she was the worst, but that doesn't mean some part of you isn't effected by her. Time will heal this and minimizing / eliminating you seeing her will help too. There are girls from my past that would still make me react but never in a million years would I take them back. Link to post Share on other sites
Heart..PLS STAHP Posted July 19, 2016 Share Posted July 19, 2016 I've been with this girl for 1.5 year we broke up 3 times, the last break-up was by me because i was sick of her arguing too much with me over the stupidest things ever and not respcting me enough because she ALWAYS mean to me...anyway Well good job here at least you had the courage to do it. Even though I experienced the same thing I never wanted to leave her completely only get distance for a month then come back. Now every time i see her i feel like my heart just jumped to my throat and i don't understand why :/ i rarely think of her and I don't miss her AT ALL it's been been 5 or 6 months now (i'm not sure) it's annoying This is absolutely normal. Appears that you aren't fully over her. You don't want her back that's fine but when you see her your heart jumps that's ok. In a few more months, a year, two years perhaps you will be absolutely fine when you see her trust me. One of the girls in my life I thought was THE ONE cheated on me, it took 2 and a half years to get over her so when I see her somewhere at the mall for example I feel nothing. I don't even wave no more it's just a random person I knew like seeing someone from 5th grade you know To prove my point I would say that my heart would jump too if I see my current ex. I mean it's normal because around 4 months ago the breakup occured. Can't say I don't want her back but it's impossible so I accepted that fact. When I see her heart will jump maybe get sad a little it will pass. Just wait it out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Arda199 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Share Posted July 20, 2016 Settle down there son! It's a perfectly normal physical response. It also indicates that you may not be completely over her. People are funny like that. Our mind will process the good and often forget about the bad in ex'es. I know you don't want her back and realize she was the worst, but that doesn't mean some part of you isn't effected by her. Time will heal this and minimizing / eliminating you seeing her will help too. There are girls from my past that would still make me react but never in a million years would I take them back. idk man, after seeing her that night i started missing her i guess...i don't understand what is happening with me, for a whole 5 months i was completely fine but after seeing her my feelings started to rush back :\ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Arda199 Posted July 20, 2016 Author Share Posted July 20, 2016 Well good job here at least you had the courage to do it. Even though I experienced the same thing I never wanted to leave her completely only get distance for a month then come back. This is absolutely normal. Appears that you aren't fully over her. You don't want her back that's fine but when you see her your heart jumps that's ok. In a few more months, a year, two years perhaps you will be absolutely fine when you see her trust me. One of the girls in my life I thought was THE ONE cheated on me, it took 2 and a half years to get over her so when I see her somewhere at the mall for example I feel nothing. I don't even wave no more it's just a random person I knew like seeing someone from 5th grade you know To prove my point I would say that my heart would jump too if I see my current ex. I mean it's normal because around 4 months ago the breakup occured. Can't say I don't want her back but it's impossible so I accepted that fact. When I see her heart will jump maybe get sad a little it will pass. Just wait it out. its kinda annoying to still have feelings for someone who is not worthy of you i hate this i don't want to fall back into the same depression when we broke up for the second time Link to post Share on other sites
Heart..PLS STAHP Posted July 20, 2016 Share Posted July 20, 2016 Hey consider this a life's lesson.. otherwise are you living at all? Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted July 21, 2016 Share Posted July 21, 2016 I've just been passing through where she lives and after months of not thinking about her at all, loads of memories came flooding back. All this without even seeing her. Triggers are awful but a reminder that these people still have a small hold on us. All we can do is fight through them and not do anything stupid. Link to post Share on other sites
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