smile95 Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 ok --just checking!!! Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 Originally posted by moimeme I see you're back. AM will have some competition. Ah. I see. Tomorrow I'll shall post a thread entitled "Women over 30 - in their prime, or out of time?" in an effort to get the chirpy banter ball rolling. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 Ah. I see. Tomorrow I'll shall post a thread entitled "Women over 30 - in their prime, or out of time?" in an effort to get the chirpy banter ball rolling. Better have something to hide behind when the shrapnel starts flying LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Rosalind Posted July 3, 2005 Share Posted July 3, 2005 Originally posted by lindya Ah. I see. Tomorrow I'll shall post a thread entitled "Women over 30 - in their prime, or out of time?" in an effort to get the chirpy banter ball rolling. lindya - long holiday weekend, no one's around. Wait till Tuesday. AM's g/f is 47 BTW.... So he would HAVE to agree 'in their prime'. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Women in their late 30s and early 40s are a bit enticing for younger men, and vice versa. A young buck knows he can seduce people his age, but he doesn't know if he can seduce a more experienced lady - it's a challenge of sorts. It'll quickly wear off, though. He'll bag her, pump her a few times, and then he'll think "Oh, well, been there, done that." Eventually we all return to compatibility. And although there are exceptions, most young men don't go around looking for women that are 15 years older. He's doing this for kicks, most probably. Unfortunately, you can't stick around to see him crash and burn. He dissed you. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Why is breaking up with someone so evil? Why should a dumper get their's back exactly? Lots of relationships end, but I fail to see why the 'dumper' deserve anything more than the 'dumpee'. If the dumper had a nasty reason to do so then they will get theirs back, but it has nothing to do with dumping anyone Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by Rosalind lindya - long holiday weekend, no one's around. Wait till Tuesday. Oh - of course! Happy 4th July Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 "Why is breaking up with someone so evil? Why should a dumper get their's back exactly?" I don't think the dumper should be punished. It's not thier fault that they are still in the immature stage where they still feel love is some magical feeling (that infatuation you feel only at the beginning of the relationship) and as soon as that's gone, they feel they have to end the relationship. Once they mature a little more, they will realize that love is a decision that one makes, a choice. Love is a choice to commit and is all those other things the Bible says. Jesus gave us very clear instructions on what love is, and none if involved "feelings". But until the person realizes this, they will go through relationship after relationship thinking the love diappeared each time. I feel sorry for them. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by Kat Why is breaking up with someone so evil? Why should a dumper get their's back exactly? If the dumper had a nasty reason to do so then they will get theirs back, but it has nothing to do with dumping anyone Exactly. It's not the act of dumping in itself which is the problem, but rather the attitude and manner. Yes, I do believe that people reap what they sow. Often the mediating mechanism is their own bad character. Sometimes it's more mysterious than that. But sooner or later it comes back to them. When I have behaved selfishly in a relationship or as a dumper, I do think it has come back to haunt me later. And conversely, good behaviour and ending a relationship kindly has its rewards - when I was dumped back in January, several of the Juliets came forward and were able to help with ex-gf perspectives on the situation. I would never have experienced this outpouring of goodwill if I had treated them badly. Link to post Share on other sites
smile95 Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 well this was 1998, so I am well over it! Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo when I was dumped back in January, several of the Juliets came forward and were able to help with ex-gf perspectives on the situation. I would never have experienced this outpouring of goodwill if I had treated them badly. How far did these good will gestures go ? , Did anyone finally took the place of Juliet or you got here some where else ? Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn How far did these good will gestures go ? Not *that* far. At least, not that I'm admitting to Seriously, ex-gfs can be very good at providing second opinions when your gf has just dumped and is blaming it on you. Did anyone finally took the place of Juliet or you got here some where else ? The new Juliet is completely new Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo Not *that* far. At least, not that I'm admitting to Seriously, ex-gfs can be very good at providing second opinions when your gf has just dumped and is blaming it on you. Seriously if it went *that* far then you should admit it, it will be one positive thing about getting dumped and I am sure most of us would then look forward to getting dumped. The new Juliet is completely new I am sorry for the terrible piece of English that I wrote, you are smart enough to get the meaning . Glad that you have a entirely new setup, so what is on the card- a trip to Verona with new Juliet. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn Glad that you have a entirely new setup, so what is on the card- a trip to Verona with new Juliet. Or I shall just climb up to her balcony and have done with it Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo Or I shall just climb up to her balcony and have done with it where are you getting these fantastic ideas from ? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by lovehurts05 Do you any you believe in what goes around, comes around? For those who have been dumped in a relationship, has this happened to you? I got hardcore dumped by a man I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, on the night he was supposed to propose. What came of it? I met Mr. B a few years later, and am now able to spend the rest of my days being thankful that Mark dumped me. Otherwise, I wouldn't have the life now that I'm very grateful to have. It isn't always apparent at the time, but being dumped cuts like a double blade - the same cut that you think will kill you, in fact becomes the one that frees you. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by greenhorn where are you getting these fantastic ideas from ? But, soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the east, and Juliet is the sun... Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo But, soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the east, and Juliet is the sun... There is definitely something with your Juliet that has turned *reluctant*Romeo to 'Poetic'*mellowed* Romeo. If this happens with everyone then why would anyone complain of getting dumped. Does your juliet has some Juliet sister as well ? Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Ahhhh most of us who have been "dumped" do wish them well but hope they fall flat on their faces! And yes IMO history does repeat itself! What goes around comes around and DOES bite you in the $8& in my world! Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by debs Ahhhh most of us who have been "dumped" do wish them well but hope they fall flat on their faces! And yes IMO history does repeat itself! What goes around comes around and DOES bite you in the $8& in my world! Amen Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob but still, she couldn't have too many years left in her. and probably had a vagina that was extra wide from experience at that age. I will email this statement of yours to your new wife on her 40th birthday as an indirect present from you. You remind me of this joke, two 40-year old friends talk and one of them says: 1: "I am going to marry a 20-year old woman." 2: "But when you're going to be 50 she will be 30!" 1: "Yeah, so?" 2: "And when you're going to be 60, she's going to be 40!!" 1: "Yeah...?" 2: "And when you're going to be 70, she's going to be 50!!!" 1: "Right! What's your point?" 2: "Why do you need a 50-year old woman?!?!" So dear VaginiaBob, this "fable" teaches us how some "men" see a woman as meat - they think it's only good for three days. In order that a man appreciates something more than a woman's vagina, the man must have the equipment necessary to recognize her other qualities. Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 "I will email this statement of yours to your new wife on her 40th birthday as an indirect present from you." hehe, maybe at that point I already traded her in for a newer model - joking. By the way, that post you referenced was from another thread (kind of freaky that you are searching my other threads-but I'm into freaky girls so that's ok) and it made the recipient chuckle, so it served it's purpose. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob By the way, that post you referenced was from another thread (kind of freaky that you are searching my other threads. Huh??? I don't get it... The lines I quoted are from this very thread. Anyway, I am inviting you to reply to my thread. Please! I have a problem. Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 damn you are right. I just realized this thread is 4 pages long already. my bad. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 No prob. So? Wanna come and help me? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?postid=523922#post523922 Link to post Share on other sites
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