Ilovelifeforwhatcome Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 I dated a guy briefly (not gonna even call it a relationship) long distance. We were together for a month before he left. I fell for him pretty hard and he wanted to move things forward, the long distance thing fell apart about 2 weeks after he left. I felt emotional distance and he seemed like he didn't care about me anymore. I found out (by pressuring him for an answer), that he isn't ready and he is very confused. He is afraid of getting hurt and just wants to be alone. I haven't heard from him in over a week, even though he wanted to stay in contact. I am disappointed and though I said I wouldn't date other guys, it looks like whatever I had w/this guy is over (his ex might be in the picture). Is it too soon to start dating? I am going nc w/him and I'm not dating to spite him, I'm dating to find a man who truly cares for me.
CarrieT Posted July 26, 2016 Posted July 26, 2016 Did you ever really meet this guy IN REAL LIFE? And he might still be involved with someone? I would say stay off the internet and go on actual dates with people. Go No Contact with the online guy and don't look back.
Author Ilovelifeforwhatcome Posted July 26, 2016 Author Posted July 26, 2016 Yes we spent a month together
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