BuddyX Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Why don't you bail on your marriage? You're doing your hubby a disservice. I can guarantee you that Your husband is dying inside. "At some point I think the question for you becomes, when am i willing to admit that my self indulgence is more important to me over that of my husbands love and loyalty and my own integrity?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lilya4Ever Posted August 2, 2016 Author Share Posted August 2, 2016 Why don't you bail on your marriage? You're doing your hubby a disservice. I can guarantee you that Your husband is dying inside. "At some point I think the question for you becomes, when am i willing to admit that my self indulgence is more important to me over that of my husbands love and loyalty and my own integrity?" I don't want to bail. I want to make it work. Bailing is easy. I can guarantee to you that he is not dying from inside - trust me on this one, ok? I have integrity I did not sleep or will sleep around. I woke up from this drama and realized it is stupid thing to get myself into at the first place. This MM is not a threat to me. But since I got so easily dragged in I started to question what is wrong at home. We do not wish or plan for something to go wrong. We do not wish for emotions or attraction to fade. But it can happen and we need to learn how to deal with it and fix it. If I did not care and only have thought about myself and my self indulgence then I would **** this MM and leave my husband the very next day. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 9, 2016 Share Posted September 9, 2016 Somewhat I also feel hurt but I try to not think about it.Now I think what kind of person he has thought I am that I will agree on having sex without emotion. Does he really think so low of me? He probably thought since you are also married that you two could just have sex and go back home to your spouses as if nothing happened. He figures someone married will not get emotionally caught up and call his wife because you have as much to lose as him. More than likely he has done this before and can tell when a woman is thirsty and plays on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Forever broken Posted September 9, 2016 Share Posted September 9, 2016 Run now, and don't look back. Trust me you don't want to take a crap where you work. I did it, and I smell it everyday. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HeCantBreakMe Posted September 9, 2016 Share Posted September 9, 2016 If you are an idiot, I am your Queen. You're not an idiot, you are just naive and gullible - as was I. If a guy likes you, the emotion comes before the sex. Guys do not bond after sex like women do. They do not release Oxytocin like we do, it makes us bond to a guy. If a guy likes you, he likes you for you. If a guy likes you, you know it and it's really obvious. He also does not ask you for sex like that. We have all been there - idiots. But you are LUCKY and you can STOP THIS NOW. I wish I would have found this board when i was where you are. Focus on you, get counseling ,talk to your husband and tell him you have had these feelings for someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
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