just peachy Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 (edited) Its been 2 years too long, i am ready to be in a relationship again, the more single i am the lonelier it feels and this loneliness just forces me to remember how nice it would be to have company and share times with someone and automatically i just start to think of my ex because of how lonely i feel and of how much i really wish i had someone in my life. I've gone out here and there, i have been dedicating time to myself 100% improving myself and career made new friends blah blah but i need a break haha kinda getting tired of me myself and i, as bad as that sounds. The single life is not as fun as the media makes it seem. I am not into the whole one night stands, clubbing, drinking type of lifestyle either, i just really haven't found not one person and it makes me think if i will be single forever, I'm turning 29 and it scares me the closer i get to 30. Its just so weird, in the past when i was in a relationship i would get hit on all the time, now its like I'm cursed or something, I'm still the same weight i was 10 years ago, nothing has changed makes me really wonder if i'll ever find someone again? or is this my life now to be single for ever? its frustrating some times and it doesn't help but make me feel even more alone. Edited July 31, 2016 by just peachy Link to post Share on other sites
bummer Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 Unlike 10 years ago, you aren't surrounded by armies of single horny men. Unlike 10 years ago, you probably lead a more independent life with more solitary work and less social activity. I'm nearly 30, I'm scared after my recent break-up that I'm too old and all that's left are those crazy people who couldn't hold a relationship (meaning you, meaning me... oops) and aren't married yet. So the pool is shrinking and the remaining fish are disfigured and crazy. But I could focus on this, or I could get out there and be happy and meet new people. Try tinder, try okcupid, try meetup.com, try hiking, try yoga, and try finding men within your interest group. That makes an instant connection and an activity you can share together. Some Frank Sinatra to help you get off your butt: 2 Link to post Share on other sites
sorano Posted August 1, 2016 Share Posted August 1, 2016 I dont even care anymore about being in a relationship. Im 34 now. where am I going. Nowhere. My heart was broken. I am just done with it. The generation now? especially in new york? Its done. I made a post that I am throwing in the towel. If I must be single, then so be it. I don't have anymore time, energy, love and passion left to start a relationship. I do not need another heart break, unecessary pain, arguements, nothing. I can't. Love yourself and be the best you can be. Because no one else in this world will love you more than yourself. I dont care what man or woman walks into our lives. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Bialy Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 I'm going the route of positive affirmations. I'm self-sufficient and could live solo, but life is so much more sweeter when it was shared... I'm a good person with a big heart and the next time around when I meet someone, he will be attracted to my positivity and appreciate all that I bring to the table. And I will appreciate him... The past is the past... A learning experience... I am stronger for it. Leave yourself open to the possibility of love. Don't close up your heart. Be mindful - nothing wrong with that -- but keep yourself open to the possibility. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Unscrewed Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 We could start an FA club, single together! For now, I don't want a relationship. I want to achieve some personal goals first. I wouldn't object if the 'right' one came along, either. Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Loneliness is in your mind. Think of it as freedom and it feels a whole lot better. Link to post Share on other sites
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