Blanco Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Let's see if you're still smiling when she starts to consider you a good enough friend to tell you about the new dudes she's dating. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawks1988 Posted August 2, 2016 Author Share Posted August 2, 2016 Let's see if you're still smiling when she starts to consider you a good enough friend to tell you about the new dudes she's dating. She doesn't even bring him up. Link to post Share on other sites
Blanco Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Yet. How long were you married? It doesn't sound like you had much time in between the end of your marriage and starting up with this woman. What did you do to identify your role in the marriage's demise; what you would do differently in future relationships to avoid similar outcomes, etc? What did you do for yourself after the marriage ended that would make you a better partner in future relationships? What did you learn about yourself from the divorce? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawks1988 Posted August 2, 2016 Author Share Posted August 2, 2016 Yet. How long were you married? It doesn't sound like you had much time in between the end of your marriage and starting up with this woman. What did you do to identify your role in the marriage's demise; what you would do differently in future relationships to avoid similar outcomes, etc? What did you do for yourself after the marriage ended that would make you a better partner in future relationships? What did you learn about yourself from the divorce? I wasn't married to the Ex I am talking about here. We dated for 3.5 years. But I was married for someone from 5 years. We divorced October 2011 and I started dating my last ex July 2012. She reluctantly started a relationship with this guy. She's told me that. She's known him for all of a month. I started a relationship with someone I knew for three months once I knew I wasn't going to get my ex back. I needed to move on. My ex wanted me to go to counseling to find out why I was afraid of marriage and I am going now. I have been since the break up happened. Going to the therapist has made me realize that I was afraid to get married because my marriage ended so badly. I told my ex this. My therapist said that I had such a negative attitude on marriage and I shouldn't because my ex wife and my ex GF are two different people altogether. Link to post Share on other sites
Blanco Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 I know you weren't married to this one. My whole point is that you got involved in this new relationship less than a year after your marriage ended. And now you're involved in another relationship not long after the end of this near four year relationship. You see a pattern? You seem reluctant to not be partnered up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawks1988 Posted August 3, 2016 Author Share Posted August 3, 2016 I know you weren't married to this one. My whole point is that you got involved in this new relationship less than a year after your marriage ended. And now you're involved in another relationship not long after the end of this near four year relationship. You see a pattern? You seem reluctant to not be partnered up. Yes you are correct. I have always been with someone. Me being single is a rare thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawks1988 Posted August 3, 2016 Author Share Posted August 3, 2016 So my ex unblocked me and my best friend from Facebook today. The only way I found out is because my best friend told me. I don't get this at all. Why is she concerned about what I'm doing? She has her own guy now and is supposedly happy... Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawks1988 Posted August 4, 2016 Author Share Posted August 4, 2016 What's the point of her unblocking me from Facebook? I don't get it. If she wants to see my stuff, she has friends and family whose FB page she can look on..this is bizarre... Link to post Share on other sites
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